i have only recently been like this and its getting me down i sometimes feel worthless
2006-08-26 01:51:59 · 8 answers · asked by marvalgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
darlin, you are not worthless at all what you need to do is take a long look in the mirror and tell yourself that you a beautiful person inside and outside put post its up on your mirror and say this everyday out loud or something positive about who you are or what you like about yourself. This may sound crazy but this works really well then go out get a make over for yourself so this also will make you feel amazing get new clothes ,get anew hair style or color pamper yourself and just stay positive this will take sometime but you will be feeling better be confident stay confident what ever happened to you make you feel this way about yourself just put it behind you ,be strong you can do this I use to be real shy and did not have a lot of confidence but now you would not even know this people who know me now have no clue I was this way in high school or grade school so you can do this to I have faith in you because you are on the right path of doing this asking for advice and knowing that you do not want to be this way and you only recently starting feeling this way so this will take less time to make you feel great again.God Bless stay positive also find a hobby or something you like doing and if it makes you confident go for it..
2006-08-26 02:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do new things. skydive, buy something so expensive it should be illegal, go to a new restaurant, or try something different at your favorite one. go for hikes, go caveing, horseback ridding anything that'll give you a mini-rush and a sense of accomplishment when you're done. also most things you try could turn into great stories ( no more being shy!) and the fact that you'll get better at doing things you don't normally do will make it easier to go right up to someone and start a conversation. if it's easier for you there are always things for singles where you're expected to just walk up to random people. more friends equals more confidence, and knowing you can do something no one thought you could do ( insert activity here) will also help boost that confidence! good luck!
2006-08-26 02:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by swsbcabg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, about condidence.you have to trust yourself...... what ever you are doing is right. You will do few mistakes in few attempts then after that you start doing the things in a right way.
Now about shyness, i suggest you not to worry or scared from anything. Just be yourself, do what ever you like, do what ever you want to wear or eat. Try to be open while making new friends, discuss your problems with your best pals. You need to be move in crowd with your friends, Just share discussions with them. or try to be someone's friend either a girl or a guy, with whome you don't have any problem to discuss the things.
After few days, i am sure you will not say that you are a shy girl.
Have faith in god.
God bless you
2006-08-26 02:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by iamyourstryme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is for you to learn to be embarrass sometimes. you don't have to do silly things though. you feel this way coz' you're afraid to be laughed at.
for example,
play a game with friends. do a little funny dance. ask them to dance along. if they laugh at you, just laugh along.
try it... trust me. i was un confident before. i after performing on stage in school and being funny to friends, i'm alot confident now.
oh yeah..... the most important thing is to tell yourself that "YOU CAN DO IT AND HEY! NO HARM DOING IT."
ALL THE BEST TO YOU.
hope you overcome it
2006-08-26 02:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by SMilez always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping, work out, hang out with new people that are more confident....socialize more.....the best thing to get over shyness and low confidence is to figure out first why you are feeling that way and fix it...
2006-08-26 01:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things you like to do! You will meet people along the way that you have things in common with, then you will no longer lack self confidence in talking, because it will be about something you know.
2006-08-26 02:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to learn to be open in every way and u should be able to express the way u feel every time and ask Gods guidance.I am sure u will succeed.
2006-08-26 02:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by twisted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yourself that you're in this world because you are worthy to live...make friends and always pray..God will help you.....ask to have more confidence...
2006-08-26 01:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋