my ex broke up with me, its been over for 6 months already. i still love him. anyway he still contacts me and gets his cousin to contact me and if he hasnt spoken to me in over a week he will turn up at my house. i told him i cant be his friend and i want him to leave me alone if he wants it over. why does he do this to me?does he still want to be with me from his actions? what should i do??tell him i have moved on so he will leave me to get over him?i dont know what to do. either he wants to be with me or i want him out of my life.....i dont know what to do
2006-08-26 01:49:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is the fifth question you have asked about what you should do about your ex…
Perhaps if you read the responses you got to the questions you have already asked, you won’t have to ask a sixth time!!!
2006-08-26 02:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Just me
Its clear that this guy some how still has some feelings for you but he is hurt, i dont know why but thats what i feel, his bride stop him from taking a serise action to be with you but at the same time he doesnt want to loose you totaly... thats why u see him doing this .. so what to do ... 1st stay away from his way dont let see you by any way , then minimize the contacts with him as much as u can, no cellphones, e mails IMs .. every thing.... But if he get to conatct you then be cleare and direct not too much talking OK ... i know it will hurt you coz u still having feelings for the guy but i advice you get over him coz if you 2 get back togother you both will get hurt ok
Best of luck dear
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2006-08-26 09:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you still love him ,then why you broke up.If he had broken up on his own then why should he still try to contact you.So i also feel that he probably still loves you just like you do. Then why avoid. Probably being friends will make both of you understand each other in a different dimension and a different perspective.Probably what ever your old quarrel or difference between him and you may resolve.I sincerely feel give the friendship a try. All the best.
2006-08-26 09:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by crazyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you need to calm down. There is nothing wrong with him wanting to be friends with you. All that means is that he feels you to are better off as friends rather than in a relationship. If its to hard for you right now because you still love him so much then just explain that to him. Tell him your not completely over him yet and its to hard for you to be friends with him right now. Maybe oneday you will turn around and call him for a firendly chat but not right now.
2006-08-26 08:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by crafts c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe he is playing games with you on purpose. He is probably confused. He wants you around as a friend just in case he changes his mind. Of course you don't have to wait around till he makes up his mind.
Tell him although you care for him you can not carry a friendship with him. If he asks you why then be blunt with him. You can answer his question and tell him you want to get on with your life and you can't do this with him coming around. If your not comfortable with that then tell him that he doesn't need to know why all he needs to know is this is how you feel and respect those feelings. After all he broke up with you. You owe him no explanations.
2006-08-26 09:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you and got his cousin involved. Make it clear you want nothing more to do wth him and if he persists with bothering you, you will get a RO against him. Move on with your life, the ex causes too many problems and he wants to get a rise out of you. Do not let him have that satifisfaction.
2006-08-26 09:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't state what the breakup was about, so, it's a little harder for us to help you.
If the breakup was because he saw another girl, you have to expect that it'll happen again.. not always, but, too often. Because, once someone cheats, it's easy to cheat again.
If it's because you and he came to blows, then, no, stay away from him.
If the two of you have children, (just trying to cover bases, here,) then you should give it some thought.
2006-08-26 08:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by chuckufarley2a 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-08-26 08:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining Order.
2006-08-26 09:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y ou need to get tough, this guy wants his cake and to eat it. if he broke up with u, he needs to face up to his decisions- give him the cold shoulder when u see him, when he calls simply tell ' why are u calling me, what do u wnat- well i cant help u' then hang up. most importantly get a new man, and have him answer ur phone or door when he comes around- TRY AND CHOOSE SOMEONE WAY BETTER THAN HIM. that will teach him- sunnovabitch
2006-08-26 09:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by nbarnor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋