Make sure that whenever I want to make love she say no..
In the beginning of our marriage she give me what I want..
Then she agree every 2 days ...now 2 time per week am fade up and I love to make love with her
2006-08-26 01:30:51 · 26 answers · asked by hameed_baz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
twice a week and you are complaining??
You need to find someone else...she is to good for you!
2006-08-26 01:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and ask her why she no longer wants to make love to you so often. It's natural that her desire for making love will fluctuate during her life and at times she will want less lovemaking than at other times. EVERY woman is the same. You will find that it will be like this for you too at different times so don't be so hard on her. Try to understand that she may be tired or feeling down or any of a number of things that can effect her desire. Try helping her at home a lot more. Tell her how beautiful she is. Praise her for how wonderful a wife she is. If you're not doing this already then you shouldn't be surprised that she has little desire to make love with you!
2006-08-26 01:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean? she agree every 2 days? if u already had a talk about how often u can have it, then u already know it wasnt happening for her.
I think u are maybe a selfish/rough lover.
Instead of worrying about ur own needs try to see if u r really meeting hers.
Does she get a glazed look in her eyes after love making? does she wanna cuddle and kiss? or does she just roll away and go wash?
Make sure ur as hot for her as u are for urself!
2006-08-26 02:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't meet a woman's needs, sexually, emotionally etc., she will easily begin to feel used. It is a normal reaction if all a man communicates about his is his sexual desires. But fails to notice when she is clearly signalling that she needs help with the home or the children or errands. It would be a nice gesture if you just told her you love her and didn't make any sexual advances a few times. She might think you actually do love her and not just for her body.
2006-08-26 02:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be a mutual thing, Not a do it and get off me. If you wife has lost her sex drive, talk to a counselor or have her go to a doctor for a check-up. Or does she have so much work to do around the house that she's worn out at night? Take a look at yourself to, are you undesirable in some way. If so, change it.
2006-08-26 01:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you made love to her or you merely satisfy your sexual needs without satisfying her?
If have to find out the truth from her. She may be reducing the frequency because she's not been satisfied or enjoying the act. The next time you have sex, try to look into her needs as well! Did you make any effort to work her up till she really desires it?
2006-08-26 01:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes men think that you are suppose to instantly start having sex. Talking about wanting it puts pressure on the other person. Just touch her gently but not down there to soon, to get her excited. woman do not like to move to fast or they do not get turned on. She needs to feel sexy. That will make her want you.
2006-08-26 08:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by marygold2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is tired of u asking all the time try to catch her in a good mood. wait for her to make the moove. Maybe if you let her sEtTle Then u will get more. but a girl can't allways want it.
2006-08-26 01:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's bored with the same old thing. How about you spice it up, or, for a chance, focus on her and give her pleasure without you having to have the pleasure.
2006-08-26 01:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she likes the way we have sex better than you, if you had payed attention to her needs, she would have submitted. But, you only wanted what you want. So she found me, and I am satisfying her to her full extent. Now quit your whining and go to work, she still needs support in those ways
2006-08-26 01:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that she is being pleased and receiving a climax. If she is then she will want it all the time.
2006-08-26 02:15:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋