he told me if i be with someone else he will never be with me again...he said he dont want anyone touching me. is he playing with me. he saId we may get back together one day but not in the near future coz we have to sort out what we want out of life
2006-08-26 01:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is your ex right? I am guessing that you still love him and hope to get back together someday. Right now, he is your ex and has no right to control you ! What he doesn't want you and know one else can either!? Wrong!!! Go meet someone new and make sure they treat with the utmost respect! You deserve it! Your ex is mentally abusing you! Run!!!
2006-08-26 01:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the answer my dear. He is playing with you. Obviously if he is your "ex" things did not work out-as you two were not meant for each other-simple as that. You can't keep doing the same thing over and over and expect different results. The whole part of him saying "you may get back together but not soon because he wants to SORT OUT what he wants out of life" is nothing but plain and simple BULLSH*T. What he is REALLY saying is "I'm a cheating b*st*rd and want to go around hooking up with other girls freely, and if I don't really find anyone, THEN I'll come back to you cuz you're not important enough to me to put first, and basically your just BACK-UP in case I don't find anyone else." You are precious and beautiful-don't let anyone use you or put you second. Find a guy who will put you first and really appreciate what a wonderful human being you are.
2006-08-26 01:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not be interested in someone that was controlling and assuming they could tell me what to do. The key here is ex----- you were together once, appearently that didn't work out, so are you going to wait for him again just to have it not work out again?
I have been married for 25 years, my wife and I have had some big arguments etc. but I have told her if I ever leave, there will be no reconcilliation, and if she leaves don't expect me to sit around feeling sorry and waiting for her to return, If you leave once chances are you'll do it again, life is too short to play those games.
2006-08-26 01:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex husband and let me tell you , their an ex for a reason which means all the months or years you was with him something didn't change or just gotten worse. So why would you think of going back kids or no kids, Sex doesn't make a relationship, AND MOST OF ALL DON'T PUT YOUR LIFE ON HOLD FOR A EX, WHAT MOVE ON AND YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE MORE BETTER. don't go back move ahead.
2006-08-26 01:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to controll you , even while your broken up. he says you may get back together one day? Dont you have a say in this as well. He is controlling , and your allowing it. If you are broken up its none of his bissiness who touches you. Its time for you to take controll of your own life and move on with your life . If its meant to be it will be but for now do what you want with whoever you want.
2006-08-26 01:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are you divorced, separated or just in a relationship? Doesn't matter, do YOU want him back? If you want him back the same rule he set for you goes for him. If he intends to get back together with you set a time limit. If you don't, he gets to play the single game while your waiting and waiting just to find out he doesn't want to get back together anyway.
Figure out what you want, don't just play by his rules.
2006-08-26 01:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by witch_wicked_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far as you can from this guy, if he is not going to you now, he will never be able to commit to anything ie having kids, buying a house etc. Go out and have some fun, go sky diving, someone new will come along and when they do - dont fight it.
2006-08-26 01:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the ex and has no say so about what you do with your life. Tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine and don't wait around on him. There's too many other fish in the sea.
2006-08-26 02:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is him showing you that you are no more than an object and he expects your obedience (better known as "mental abuse"). Get another guy and tell the ex to get a life.
2006-08-26 01:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you now- move on. Why should you have to put your life on hold, because he might want you back someday? He's playing games with you.
2006-08-26 01:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋