2006-08-26 00:50:35 · 25 answers · asked by missthing_21176 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Than why did you marry him if you can't submit to you husband?
2006-08-26 00:56:20 · update #1
Of course I do. I love my husband and I should be subimisive to him.
2006-08-26 00:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't women suppose to submit? The bible even tells us to. I do to a point. I am willing to make many sacrifices and go out of my way for the man I love so much. But that works both ways and he must give in sometimes as well. I am not the little fifties house wife, but I tend to take care of the more domestic things.
2006-08-26 02:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by sam k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did for 14 years, I lived my life like the good wife should. I was the 1st one up in the morning and the last to go to bed at night. All of my charges were properly attended to. I successfully managed the family business for 10 years. I was respectful of my husband and encouraged him to be the best he could be. My husband was definitely, for a time prominent at the city gates. Had I married the right person this would have been a true blessing and example of what God intended marriage to be. Instead, I was taken in by a wolf in sheep's clothing. I was unsure of myself and allowed him to manipulate me for many years. The result was a mockery of marriage. Like building your home on unstable ground all that I had accomplished fell in ruin. Now I struggle to salvage the bits and pieces that may help me rebuild.
It is a slow and difficult process. Trust your inner gut feeling, Don't let anyone undermine your ability to recognize the promptings of the spirit. If you have personal issues that sabotage your self trust or confidence, then do not commit yourself in marriage until you have resolved them. Marriage is a beautiful gift and a huge responsibility. The key is knowing without a doubt that you are called to be a wife. Secondly you are called to be the wife of the man who wishes for your hand. Don't be fooled by false charms and clever manipulation of Gods word. Should you marry the wrong person the consequences are devastating. Do Not Enter Into Marriage Lightly!!! Our Lord advises us with a Love that we can't even begin to comprehend. If you really listen to that small prompting in your gut, you can trust that you will be doing Gods will. Yes, submit to a husband that Loves you unconditionally. One who would always listen to your input as you are the perfect helper. It would be unbearable for him to be of another mind than you. You must be evenly yoked. That's when Marriage as it was intended to be is truly a blessing.
2006-08-26 01:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The bible says that a woman should submit to her husband. I think that both husband and wife should discuss matters and express their opinion to each other. But in the end, the husband should make final decisions. However, if he is being abusive to you in any way (physical, verbal/emotional, isolation and/or sexual) then you should not listen to him and should leave him.
2006-08-26 02:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a man (husband)and 100% she(wife) will prefer to die but never submit me
2006-08-26 01:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shahid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean submit as in "he's the boss" yes, I do. Many times I let him have his way, unless he's stepping on my toes... then I put him in his place..lol. Our relationship is mutual but I do respect the fact that he's still the man of the house.
2006-08-26 01:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married but do have a steady bf, to answer your question-yes, i have submitted to him (w/ regards to our sex life) as he has also submitted to me-i strongly believe that if u keep your sex life full of spice & variety & are open minded in this area that u will enjoy a long, happy, dull free relationship
2006-08-26 00:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership. Submitting sounds like a master and slave...no. (unless it's a little game we are playing...)
2006-08-26 01:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
But by no means does this mean that he "abuses" his power. He does not have power over me. Sexually we do what each other needs and it is mutual.
In our relationship he is the strongest to handle certain things, and I am the strongest to handle other things. He IS the head of our household, and I am the Co-Pilot!
2006-08-26 01:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes and it is not that hard as all the other ladies who answered think.
It feels good!
In the end every woman is the boss! (but stays a secret)
2006-08-26 01:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sadaf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋