he tells his girlfriend a sweetheart and all and also loves his wife but his wife didt likethat but he tells to his wife this are all common words and nothing serious . is this possible does he loves his wife?
2006-08-26 00:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by lio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think his behavior is inappropriate and insensitive. Words lead to actions, and where this is leading can be dangerous grounds.
2006-08-26 00:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only sweetheart a married man should have is his own wife. He should not be having a very close relationship with another woman. It is very inappropriate. He may love his wife, but he also cares about his girlfriend. He should not have any close female friends once he's married, especially if his wife doesn't approve of it.
2006-08-26 08:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know that there is really any concern…
I’m a happily married man, and I will often make a comment like “It’s OK darlin” to people other than my wife. I think ‘terms of endearment’ such as darlin’ or dear are not inappropriate to use.
I often have a problem with remembering the names of people, so being able to use words like mate or darlin’ is a blessing in disguise!
Mind you, if I started calling other women ‘beautiful’ or ‘honey’ or maybe ‘sweetheart’ (I’m not too sure about that one) my wife would probably start being concerned.
I don’t think it is right to judge whether a husband loves his wife, just by the ‘terms of endearment’ that he uses with other women. Of course, if he used names like that for other women, and called his wife names like Bi*ch, *hore, Sl*t, etc it would be a totally different story altogether!!!
2006-08-26 10:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you do with the friend? Has your wife met her? I have a male friend,I met him at a new job and have been friends for 17 years, after he met my husband 6 months after I was working at the job, they too are friends. Now our friend has a new relationship and we met her and we too are friends. My male friend calls me sexy all the time, nobody cares cuz because we love our partners not each other,we're just friends. We do love each other, but in a different way. If you don't have that kind of friendship then it will never work between you, your wife or your friend.
2006-08-26 08:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by witch_wicked_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible but the wife has to be okay with the whole idea and not be jealous. It depends on the trust she has in him if it can work. Sometimes guys are great friends whether they are married or not.
2006-08-26 08:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is married there is no reason to have friends of the opposite sex. It is just trouble waiting to happen. It is inappropriate especially if he is calling her sweetheart. Obviously it is making you uncomfortable which is another reason he should stop the behavior.
2006-08-26 07:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in this situation, I think he loves the wife, but has fun with the friend. Wants both and will take both unless you are ready to walk. If you do, and he doesn't stop you, then you know what his feelings truely are. But, you have to be ready to actually walk. I am at that point, as we speak.
2006-08-26 07:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by lynddd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with a man having a girl as best friend at all,i got a male friend and call him babe all the time and he calls me chick,my husband dont mind at all as he trusts me and i him,its good to have mates from the oppossite sex has you get a whole new veiw of the world around you
2006-08-26 07:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just Depends!
2006-08-26 07:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Cheyenne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the man is an idiot for saying that, most females are not comfortable with their husbands having a good female friend, very dangerous territory, lot of jealousy
2006-08-26 07:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by paki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋