I have discussed in detail with my wife to have a 4some with my friend couple who are nice. My wife initially hesitated but now seems to interested. Now how to talk to my friend about it and get him and his wife agree to this 4some? I think even my friend will like the idea. What would his wife think? She's pretty broad minded otherwise and kind of likes to talk to me always.
2006-08-26 00:14:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with RUupTOit. It is not all that uncommon, seek out a club or website that indulges in this kind of activity. I would really research it. And for the people who are saying it's bad, don't listen to them. This is a new age, not the 60's. Take on the new hobby with your wife. It is sex, and it's healthy. But be sure that your marriage can handle the stress that might accompany it.
2006-08-26 01:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by bazerk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not admit the truth... you aren't interested in 4somes or anything else like that... you simply want to bed your friends wife ... period... but just because she likes to talk to you doesn't mean shes wants to mate with you... geeezzz... You should get a divorce, then grow up... oh yes, and stop watching fantasy porn movies...
2006-08-26 01:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in a nut shell you are saying that you are ready for a divorce. Because, if the woman that you are married to actually loves you then, if this encounter takes place that is where you will be. I dont see how a woman or a man could love each other and be sexually active with another peron(s), and not be confused or upset after the fact. It just is not in human nature to not be jealous.
2006-08-26 00:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by iamahotty36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sign up for a free membership on
www.adultfriendfinder.com
It is not as abnormal as you might think. It is actually very popular to have these fantasies. The site has 23 million members. If you check it out, let me know what you think?
Sex with strangers is probably a wiser route to take than messing up a friendship.
2006-08-26 00:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by terterryterter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't agree with that type of relationship myslef ...and if you were my husband I would put hot peppers in your pants and kick you out the door but anyways if I had to take your question seriously I would suggest you just INDIRECTLY bring up the subject to your friend and ask him his opinion /thought on in general couples who swing ...as it could mean you misjudge your friends character and he andhis wife decide they want nothing to d with you both
2006-08-26 00:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duno if u seen the move with the same subject, it was not very good idea, there is 4 ppl and they r all tripping
2006-08-26 00:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad idea........
2006-08-26 00:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋