why we get married?

because women want some poor schlub who is willing to buy her a house and pay all the bills.

2006-08-25 23:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋

It depends.... We can marry for different reasons..... and love I think, would be one of the best reasons why we marry. However, the buck does not stop there~~

Marriage is a commitment and unless the two parties are committed to each other in making the relationship work, love just isnt enough.

And babies by the way are blessings..... they come in as a bonus. :)

2006-08-26 00:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

We choose to marry a person because we LOVE them. Yes, LOVE: a word that means so much in our everyday life. We feel that we resonate with a particular person and we can't bear to leave it to chance by not marrying that person. CHANCE means that, if the other person feels that their feelings are not being met - then they will search for someone who can meet their criteria. Why would a man let that happen when deep down they know that this woman is for them. However, they still just go along with their everyday lives as if that women will be there forever - and without the commitment? One day this women will say - 'I want to be married to a man who wants to belong to me and forever'. She'll move on to greener pastures in search of her true prince.

2006-08-26 00:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Are you confused?
Maybe you guys should start loving each other and seeing how you can love each other instead of how the other isn't doing their part. Does that makes sens? Don't look for the bad in each other. Don't dwell on what the other should be doing for you. That's selfish.

Selfishness is the number one reason for divorce.

Good luck and do the best thing for the child; keep a happy and intact home with both parents.

2006-08-25 23:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

God ordained marriage in the first place. Marriage is what it is until death.Divorce should never be an option no matter what. Marriage is a lifetime commitment - bottom line ; for better or worse. When we marry our ordained soulmate God gave in the first place ; we make a lifetime commitment to stick by our mate through thick and thin. If our ordained lifetime soulmate screws up and makes mistakes , forgive them , work it out and maintain your lifetime commitment.

2006-08-26 00:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Mrriage is far different case than love .. marriage needs integration.. mutual understanding, social approximity and personalcomfort .. unlike love that needs matching, mental harmonization, emotional attraction and sexual excitmement ..

Love stories are rare to coincide with happy marriage .. but happy marriage may lead to wise calm and silent love stories ..

while love stories are always doors for further suffer and resless feelings.

2006-08-26 00:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by ohwaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Humans have tried thousands of ways to live and raise families. Marriage has been found to be the best way, based on thousands of years of human experience. We marry, cuz it works best.

2006-08-25 23:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Marriage is essential to keep family together, to commit oneself to the other and give a feeling of security and support to the rest of the members.

2006-08-25 23:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Eyedoc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋

For love, for babies, for commitment to another person with as much as we can possibly give. It's a bond.

2006-08-25 23:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

well bbay ..
really i thought alot about this metter and really don`t know why ..
i`v been married and now not ,, but why we do it if we can make it without marrige..
any way ,, i think is more better if a life was without marrige , but only with a love..

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please read this poems aboit lebanon..

2006-08-26 00:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

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