Isn't it necessary for the man to have some manly qualities, to get my attention ? Should this be the reason for a woman to love a man because he will take good care of me ?
2006-08-25 23:08:32 · 30 answers · asked by muralidharini 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
no, its not enough. you can appreciate him and love him for loving you and taking care of you, but you wont ever be in love with him.
2006-08-25 23:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Will Only Say About This That U Love A Person Who Just Love U Rather U Love The Person Because The Person Who Loves U Can Only Take Ur Better Care...
2006-08-28 00:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by dhvtzala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can always appreciate love, but it depends on how it is expressed, u can never appreciate a love which is forced upon u. U must accept it voluntarily, and u must b sure that u do want this person to b ur love. Otherwise, after some years u may repent ever having accepted this love and may cause more pain to the person then than if u rejected it now, or u should ask for more time to think it over to be sure about ur feelings,bcoz its obvious from ur question that u r completely confused now. Dont rush about ur feelings, it may lead to a blunder. But its always best to love the person u marry ie) love after marriage, bcoz then u will b able to love him knowing all his positive and negatives, and that is what love is really about. In love, the other person will reveal u only the positive side and u may forget that every person has certain drawbacks too and when u know them later u might find that u were never in love with him after that first infatuation is gone. Its best to tell the other person to continue to be friends and u can decide after 1 or 2 years when u really know this person well, that is if he is ready to wait.
2006-08-26 06:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by t m p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question. Feeling secure is a big part of a relationship for a woman. So I think it's absolutely possible to fall in love with a man because he makes you feel safe and wanted. It's what we all want. Men want it too. And I don't know that I subscribe to men having "manly qualities". A good person is a good person, be it man or a woman.
2006-08-26 07:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nuseed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,it is cheating not only to yourself but also to the one who loves you. And having too many or manly qualities does not mean he can take good care, but still you can count on that person that he can provied good money &moral support.I still feel that you should first know about his & yours family background & culture it will help u to understand him &make your mind ,it is batter to concider all this now rather criticise yourself after. Afterall life is not just love,but also a duty to perform toward your parents & socity.if you get the hand of loveonce then life became funny & easy.
2006-08-26 06:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by sanjeev p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all love gets tossed around like it's any old thing, but it's not it's something that happens when two people feel so passionate about each other and so connected to one another that nothing else in the world matters but that person. You can't love alone, there is no such thing. And i really get tired of people floating it out there after a couple of week of knowing someone.
2006-08-26 09:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by StealthShadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed it is possible... my mothers words were she was not in love with my father when she met him.. she married him to escape my grans clutches...she was 16 at the time when they married but she is still with him after a fantastic 50 years she had 6 children and everyone of em were wanted and loved...
but talk to your bf first let him know how you feel and you want to give it more time ....
take care and good luck Sweetheart
2006-08-26 06:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not reason enough in it self. But you can´t help feeling a little flattered, can you? And if that doesn´t trigger some loving feelings from you, then he is not man enough for you, and you will have to turn him down gently, but that is not easy, so good luck.
2006-08-26 13:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by lonely dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends & may vary in person to person, but for women in particular, it's observed by me that they prefer richer person more, the money & wealth, besides anything else I guess in general. Whereas, men looking at the look & beauty in the women it's observed, barring some exceptions in both the cases.
2006-08-27 01:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love is real there is no reason for any time. It will flows on them who's mingled both (male+female). As for your question, you are not in love, that is interesting+ safe of future. ( Wise girl character)
2006-08-26 06:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is more than loving someone than "just because..." If you have no feelings for this person then that's it! If you pursue a relationship with this person, you'll probably regret it in the long run.
2006-08-26 06:13:21 · answer #11 · answered by Kendra B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋