I feel kinda bad I kicked my wife in her ribcage. If I take her to out to dinner shouldn't she forgive me?

Answer 1

Only if you take her to the Red Lobster.

Answer 2

If you were my husband I sure the hell wouldn't forgive you!!!!!!

I bet this isn't the first time you have hit your wife. If you really love your wife go get help for your anger problem. Learn to be a real man. Real men don't hit there women or anyone to feel like a man.

Don't you think that it is wrong to make your wife feel like a piece of ****. How would you feel if the roles were reversed?

Hitting her will not solve your anger issues. One of 2 things are gonna happen here.

One she will get tired of being your punching bag and realize that there is more to life than you hurting her and leave.

Or two one day you will hurt her so bad that she will end up in the hospital or you will kill her. And then where will you be with either of these options happen in jail.

And that is where you should be!!!!!

And another possible senario is she will keep letting you abuse her until she can't take it anymore and then she will snap and kill you or kill herself.

I don't know what kind of problems you have sir but you need to address them quickly and get help. Your wife deserves this.

Also everytime you hit her buying her nice things and taking her out to dinner or what ever it is that you do to get her to forgive isn't working.

These things may be nice but she will never truly forgive you for what you have did to her. And these gimmics are only gonna work for so long.

Everytime you hit your wife your are killing her love for you. And little by little she is growing to hate you. And before you know it she isn't gonna love you at all.

Think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed and you were the one being abused. How would you like getting hit day in and day out?
You would feel scared, ashamed, embarassed, sad, worthless, and alone and wonder if life was better without this person. You would even think that death was better than putting up with your abusive spouse.

I'm sure that your wife is feeling alot of what I am saying. She doesn't leave you right now becasuse of her love for you and she is quick to forgive because she doesn't know any better yet.

But in time she will start feeling different in time she will start to hate you, despise you, get sick from the thought of you touching her or being near her. She will dread seeing you come home and pray to god that you stay away longer just so she don't have to put up with you.

Don't think this can happen well It can. My mom is living proof of that.

If you really truly love your wife do her a favor as well as yourself and stop your volient behavior now. Go get help for your problem. Let them teach you how to cope with your anger before you kill someone or they kill you.

Answer 3

HELL NO!!! You bas ta rd!!! I can't believe that you actually think that by "buttering her up" that she'll just be all happy and peaches and cream with you after that load of crap! How incredibly sick and twisted and abusive you are! What's wrong with you? You need to see a councilor because no MAN would EVER do that to any woman, NO MATTER WHAT!!

I dated a stupid moron like you once. We were engaged, and after the first bruise from him I WAS GONE FOREVER. No woman ever deserves to live or be with a selfish childish man like that.

I suggest NEVER TOUCHING HER AGAIN IN A PAINFUL, CONTROLING, ABUSIVE way is the only way to earn back her trust and true forgiveness. AND LOTS OF TIME.

You deserve whatever she's about to dish out at you. And if she doesn't? Well, then you picked a woman with no self-esteem.

Answer 4

Honey, if you kicked your wife who was created by God out of man's rib for you, and you don't see a problem with that, then you need some help changing your perspective of her and her purpose in your life. Don't you know that she is the most beautiful, rare and precious gifts you could receive? Seek some serious counseling and anger management help if you want to make this relationship last. Remeber, you never miss the water until YOUR well runs dry.

Answer 5

Why don't you come over to my house and kick me in the ribs.Then we will go out for dinner and I will watch you gum your food because I would knock all your teeth out .It takes a big man to beat up a woman.

Answer 6

If she is smart she would get a order of protection fro you. Since you abused her by kicking her in the ribs. I think you need to go do some jail time for domestic abuse. I don't think any female should have to put up with that type of bs from their spouse or soul mate or a loved one.

Answer 7

She might be too sore to enjoy anything at the moment. Your a pig who deserves to be in jail. How can u be so casual about it?
Instead of taking her out to dinner, why not get a pair of handcuffs, tell her she can handcuff u too the bed adn kick the **** out of u too her hearts content.
Lets see how u feel about going out to dinner afterwards

Answer 8

Hell no why would someone forgive someone for hitting them by taking them out to dinner your a dumb *** for asking that question and hitting your wife hope she beats you with a frying pan!

Answer 9

Take her out to diner??? I would make her fix me diner and give me a BJ and beg for me to accept her forgivness if you start treating women good you will just have to kick her again.

Answer 10

What your wife should do is kick you out. Dinner after a beating is buttering up. It is just as abusive as the abuse itself. You should really consider anger management.

Answer 11

i must say all things you posted give us a laugh. if you have half a brain, you wouldn't ask these silly questions as you have. but are entertaining if the scenerios aren't true. if they are, you seriously need to go and get psycho help.