someone keeps blatently flirting with my husband, i.e. hugging, calling him hunk, saying suggestive/rude comments. Thing is its my grown up childs friend, this person is about 13 years younger than my husband, he has said to ignore her, but Im afraid I see red, so how would you handle this and if you confronted her what would you say?
2006-08-25 22:49:26 · 20 answers · asked by TOTO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The buck stops with your husband. He needs to position himself with this person to let them no in no uncertain terms that this type of behavior is not exceptable.He doesn't have to be nasty with her but he does need to let her know that the activity is disrespectful and needs to stop. You're his wife and he should take your feelings into consideration as should you were something of this nature bothering him. He does not need to wait until you blow a gasket. Just pick a time when he and you are both calm and in a good receiving mode and talk to him about it.
2006-08-25 22:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried.
She is just practicing the bonding with men, something she cannot do with her age friends. She has not intention to take your husband. She is trying to win compliments from an elder person although of wrong type - but still not harmful.
Yes, your husband's morals are being tested to some point.
Actually you can use it as an arousal for the sex you can enjoy right after such warm up. Secrets better not talked about the could be Well pRActiced harmlessly.
EnJoy
2006-08-26 06:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by vinod s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may well be nothing in it, and you are just feeling pangs of jealousy, which is a horrible position to be in. But as it is really bothering you speak to your child and tell them just how it is making you feel, Ask them to have a word and if it continues just tell your child not to bring her into your company. At the end of the day you shouldnt be made to feel uncomfortable in your own home.
And on another note, treat yourself and make yourself feel good about you, it might give you that boost you need to give you your confidence back and put you back in control. Good Luck
2006-08-26 05:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by kookiboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby SHOULD be on your side and a pal, so if that's the case, set HER up!
Next time she's around, both of you let her start up, slide up next to hubby and both of you hold hands, whisper to each other, kiss a little and even if she tries to interrupt, IGNORE her completely! Be LOST in each other as if you just met and don't let up till little wiggle eyes takes her own awkward leave. If she tries it after that, both of you should stare her down with a frown! Then you can get in her face and tell her to knock it off, but I like playing with players and if you two are SOLID, this should be fun!
If not, marry that guy up there who just proposed to you!
2006-08-26 05:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I was your husband. Anyways, she's probably just playing. I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you prove to your husband that you're a great woman, he has no reason to cheat. Make sure he's honest on whether he thinks this girl is cute or not, just so you are on the same page.
2006-08-26 05:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey do what my sister did she just outright kissed her husband in front of her face and said out loud can anybody do this better to you honey. He replied no baby.... Try that.
2006-08-26 05:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them straight that your husband and you don't like it when they start hugging and saying suggestive comments thats all you can do, or get your children to have a good serious word with this person.............
2006-08-26 05:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by fossil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Keep your filthy slutty little hands off my husband or ill kick you in the ****, no wait you might enjoy that since your such a dirty skank... If he wanted you dont you think he would be married to you instead of me? Wake up to yourself you dirty whore and find your own man!"
2006-08-26 06:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby having said to ignore, do that! If I confront her, I will say, hi girl, why can't you be bit decent in your behavior?
2006-08-26 05:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband said to forget it so drop it
2006-08-26 05:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋