this is kinda survey,because today in this time a lot of people using sex toy. In your opipnion what other things than sex toys can be use in musterbation?
2006-08-25 22:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by jamar 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you don't know, you are either too young or too stupid to know.
2006-08-25 22:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
MISHLOVE: You've used the term -- I think you must have coined it -- "musterbation."
ELLIS: Right. "Masturbation is good and delicious, but musterbation is evil and pernicious," is one of my sayings.
MISHLOVE: Musterbation is when we tell ourselves, "I must do this," or, "Things must be this way," even though they're not.
ELLIS: Right. The three main musts are "I must do well or I'm no good," "You, you louse, must treat me well or your'e worthless and deserve to roast in hell," and "The world must give me exactly what I want, precisely what I want, or it's a horrible, awful place."
MISHLOVE: It would be awful.
ELLIS: It would be terrible, right. Because of the must. If you didn't musterbate, then you wouldn't awfulize, terribilize, catastrophize, say "I can't stand it," and put yourself down. If you only stuck with, "I'd like very much to do well, but I never have to," you wouldn't then disturb yourself.
MISHLOVE: So the technique that you get engaged in with your clients is one of disputing their musts, their ideas, and showing them that logically, scientifically, philosophically, things are not that way -- that nothing must be, if it isn't.
ELLIS: The technique is a scientific method, and we say -- and we're the only cognitive behavioral therapy which does say -- that when you think antiscientifically, devoutly, really piously, dogmatically, which is inflexible, antiscientific, then you disturb yourself. Therefore we use the flexible scientific method to get you philosophically and otherwise to undisturb yourself.
2006-08-25 22:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are abov 16 you can do safe sex with some girl and after 18 you get get married because their is no subsitute for sex , it is a natural course .
2006-08-25 22:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sidd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find that stimulating the genitals with a vibrating handheld massager really gets you in the mood... of course the best sex toy that not really a sex toy would be petroleum jelly...
2006-08-25 22:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by toaster9795 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Rubber duck
2006-08-25 22:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put your finger in you a$$. Great stimulation.
2006-08-25 23:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself a girl friend or get married
2006-08-26 01:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by ng 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Musterbation? Good Lord, you're too stupid to even know how to spell it! You're probably too stupid to know how to do it!!! duh!
2006-08-25 22:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone to give you a *******!
2006-08-29 20:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by duke4172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find urself a girl, if u were old enough!!!!!!!
2006-08-26 01:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by smousa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋