At my leaving do in work, I was told ' dont ever change' by someone who i thought didn't really like me much. How would you interperet this?
2006-08-25 22:20:41 · 14 answers · asked by Squiddly Diddly 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
By saying you need to believe in yourself more and not be so bothered about what others may or may not think of you.
It's only important what YOU think of YOU. Who cares, you're not there anymore, why do you feel the need to cause yourself unnecessary pain?
If they didn't like you very much, then they don't like themselves much, if it was a dig then they are nasty and don't respect themselves. Why take advice from the sick and disturbed?
DO NOT TAKE THIS COMMENT ANYWHERE ELSE. LEAVE IT AT THE WORKS DO, and focus on your new job.
Sounds like jealousy to me.
2006-08-25 23:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i'm additionally in Australia. as quickly as I left my activity i did no longer might desire to be fired or on Maternity leave to declare family members money from Centrelink. If it somewhat is what you have been instructed might I recommend ringing back and talking to somebody else. I did that a pair of situations on distinctive concerns using fact it form of feels some pick that might actually assist you and others dont.
2016-09-30 00:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by kinjorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound as if they are jealous of you,and are just having a petty sarcastic dig at you,don't worry, know your much better than that and let your good self rise above such daft behaviour.
have a good day my friend and enjoy your life and live it .
2006-08-29 04:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by ralphthemouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of lifes charmers leaving things a tad too late-obviously liked you very much and covered it well now they safe because you leaving. Anyway congratulations on moving forward with your life, hope all works out well for you.
2006-08-29 04:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by what? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you thought this person did not like you, this person may have been intimidated by you and have a secret crush or could have been a bit shy and your great presence that you possess may have squashed their tiny existence.
2006-08-25 23:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by lux 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me that would mean "Continue to be yourself. I may not agree with what you say but I will fight for your right to your own opinions and actions".
Accept it as aproval, smile and move on.
2006-08-28 22:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you were wrong and he/she could see some good value to yourself ...or he/she had nothing else to say, but felt it necessary to say something, so used a typical line, without much thought.
2006-08-29 04:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't. does it matter? if it was a sideways dig - it is worth ignoring. if it was meant as a compliment, it was kinda weak. put your energy into doing your own thing.
2006-08-25 22:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by foucaultagogo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think you will smell a bit
2006-08-25 22:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Colin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this person didnt like you they wouldnt have come to your do.
2006-08-28 11:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by The Way 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋