I have been with this guy 3 years. We have a son together. He tried to sleep with my sister, then lied about it. Then he calls up his ex and asks her to come over for sex. I am far from ugly. Guys are always trying to take me out and call me just to say hi. So, should I stay with this guy or give up. I know that I could have someone else without a problem. But, I really do love him. What should I do??
2006-08-25 22:04:16 · 15 answers · asked by Slipped Away 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1)LIED 2 U!!
2)TRIED 2 SLEEP W/ YOUR SISTER
3)CALLS EX OVER 2 HAVE SEX WITH HER
LADY WHY THE HELL R U IN LOVE WITH GUY????
PLEASE EMAIL ME!!!
2006-08-25 23:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not, will you do it? Probably not, but you could do so much better. It is so difficult when you have a child with him, I know it's not the kind of love you can just get over. Yet, if you know for a fact he has done these things, your life is going to be much harder with him. You will drive yourself crazy, wondering what he is up to and your mood won't be too great for your son either. Don't leave him because you know you can do better but because you know you don't deserve to be treated that way and you want to live a happy life with your son.
2006-08-26 02:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, take him back. All the guy did was try to screw sis, and still plays with old girlfriends. He IS a prize. Ya better hurry. Or you can just get a male dog. They too chase after any female dog in heat. You could settle for that, or, assuming you have a little pride, and brains- you can dump the jerk, and find a real man, one who has some morals. Your choice.
2006-08-26 00:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him having sex with other women has absolutely nothing to do with you. Men are going to cheat just because it is something they do. Can you forgive him, the man you love, over and over again for doing what men do? The alternative would be to break up, get a new man you don't like as well, and he will cheat on you to.
2006-08-25 22:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS NOT WORTH IT!! He is a slime-ball to the extreme, and do you really want that kind of role model in your child's life??
Too bad you had a child with him. That really super sucks. But don't stay with that moron. Not worth it at all.
Find yourself another great man. There are plenty out there and by the sound of it you're still hot and men still want you so TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THAT!
Good luck hon
2006-08-25 23:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you possibly love about him. arent you bettter than that,dont you deserve to be treated better. if you enjoy being treated like trashgo ahead and stay with him,just know your son is watching everything that goes on,is that really the signal you want to send him. that its ok for men to treat women like that?
2006-08-25 22:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl be with him and make him jealous have male friends do things to wear he would have to keep a eye on you but dont let him know that you are jealous of him and the **** he is doing
game recognize game so dont be the fool go out have fun and worry about you he aint going nowhere either live your life to the fullest when you get home just keep it to where he knows he is the man when he is home in the streets its your world. i say have your cake and eat it too
2006-08-25 22:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by firered 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everybody can be replaced upgraded etc. Have you talked to your man telling him what sort of relationship you want and he needs to meet? I'd say talk get it out in the open and than go from there.
2006-08-25 22:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worthy of the love and affection you gave him Dump him and get on with life. Life is short, so live to the best you can.
2006-08-25 22:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, you should adjust with him for your son's sake more. Gradually make the damage control. Don't be abusive or resistive in the life with him.
2006-08-25 22:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋