How is it being married to a woman who has a child already?

Question

Just wanted to know.... Nothing personal. I wanted to know if there are any brave men out there who give women a second chance.

Lol sorry if I offended you. By saying giving a second chance, I meant a second chance at a decent life, not a second chance to not make mistakes. Sheesh....I know that single moms have reasons that may or may not be their fault.

Answer 1

I married my wife when her daughter was three. It all depends how you feel about the woman you love and the sacrifices you are willing to commit to. My wife was independent enough to allow me to continue my inner growth and participate in activities which she had no involvement interest. Of course there were some adjustments but it wasn't bad. Making each day a little fun helped the relationships grow and communication helped to maintain the respect.

Answer 2

Give women second chance ? LMAO first of all , MOST single mothers are single because their husbands were to imature to live by their wedding vows, so we never got a first chance with a "REAL" man.. make me laugh, Second chance lol.. hun ive been a divorce with 2 kids for almost 10 years.. and i had my share of bf's and a few of them were long term relationships, and the long term ones asked me to marry them, but i was picky this time around on who i wanted for a husband ..and turned them down till i married my now husband ..oh and not only was i single mom, but im also a mom of a terminally ill child thats deaf, so that added even more to a man wanting to be the step dad of my children, and i never had a problem finding bf's, i was just picky about who i chose this time around to not only be my husband, but father to my children.. Second chance lol make me laugh.. im on my 2nd marriage, just got married a little over a year ago, been together for 3 and half years and my x husband is on his 3rd marriage which he cheats on her too, and i was his first wife.. lol Second chance like we are the ones with the problems lmao..

Answer 3

Well, I think if you end up marrying them & having a child of your own with them; their child is always going to come 1st. You will always be reminded of the other man who fathered that child. It's really up to you.
I think marriage is hard enough trying to keep together.
No offense to everyone else, but this is just my opinion.
You seem like you're pretty young, but you have to become a husband 1st before becoming a father.

Answer 4

My husband had 3 kids , I had 2
But his lived with there mother. Things worked out, but there was some jealousy from him and my son. But it worked out. There are alot of men or women marrying with children.. You just have to be grown up effot to except them Good luck Pem

Answer 5

I'm one of those guys, when I married my wife she had a 2 year old son, her 1st husband died of cancer when the boy was 3 months old, worked out fine been married now for 11 years we also have a 8 year old daughter, as for my son I'm the only real dad he has ever known, he is such a good kid I can't believe it, it has worked out for me anyway.

Answer 6

sometimes more mature than a woman who has never been married. the experience they can bring to the relationship is one of those things. it would only be disastrous if she havent learned from her mistake or the past marriage's mistake.

Answer 7

I have two children from a previous marriage and my wife has one and every thing worked out great. I think it help us to not look at our kids as some one Else's they are "our" children.

Answer 8

I wouldnt mind it, as long as the woman wasnt some tramp who you knew had an affair on her husband... Loyality plays a big role.

Answer 9

I have 2 kids that I Love very much myself so it would'nt bother me a bit.

Answer 10

2nd chance?? Are you serious? Apparently someone needs a lot more maturity in his life.