is cheating?

Question

my boyfriend called me 2night at 8:30 p.m. i knew he was not gonna come over my house but he didnt say he was going out anywhere well i havent heard from him yet n its 3:33 a.m. i called his house they told me he wasnt home n he hasnt bothered to call me n hes always calling me i think he went out with someone else what do you think? what should i do? i shuoldnt answer his calls if he calls 2morrow right? plase help I'M CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Woman's intuition is a thing of beauty. If she thinks/feels it...then it more than likely true(not always though). Just check things out for yourself: if 1+1= 2 then you are still OK, but if 1+1=3 then he is cheating on you and you need to find a new boyfriend.

Answer 2

Don't get in a twist about it. Easier said than done, right. you don't know whats up. Yes answer his calls, for all you know he's asleep or maybe hooked up with a guy friend last minute and lost track of time(they do that alot). See how he acts when you see him tomorrow, look him in the eye... If he averts or can't look into yours then do some investigating. If you don't trust each other it will never work.

Answer 3

Don't panic now. Wait till you talk to him again tomorrow and ask him what he did tonight and why he didn't tell you that he was going out. Maybe he got an sudden unexpected invitation from friends to go out. Or there can be many possible reasons. But if you're that scared that he might have cheated on you, ask him in a very calm way if he did.

Answer 4

I think if you are around and he calls, you should answer and you should mention that you called and he wasn't in.

There must be a reason you don't feel like you can trust him. If you want to continue the relationship, you will have to deal with that.

But just because he went out doesn't mean he's cheating. He could have been seeing friends.

Answer 5

Are you the same one that hasn't been putting out for 18 months? If so, well DUHHH... If not, then I apologize, and feel you both should have a meeting of the minds with absolutely intigrated honesty, and realize that neither of you OWN the other.
regardless safety is primary cause there are some NASTY diseases out there...

Answer 6

No. I could also think that he might have gone with someone else.
Whether you should answer his calls is up to you only. Why the calling between you are noted as in nights? No body can help you in your confusion as stated. Better resolve yourself.

Answer 7

He may have decided to go out at the last moment. Why don't you ring him tomorrow and ask where he was or ask what he did last night. If he says he was at home then you know hes lying. Then you can be suspicious

Answer 8

Guys like the chase, and too often because us women LOVED to BE chased, we make it obvious by hanging around for those silly boys to call us! GIRL!! Straight up can his tush! You can do better! I hate to tell you but when guys do that.. they are DEFFINATELY cheating and you are worth WAY more then that honey! Be strong sister! make YOUR life happen and don't wait around for a man to do it because it will never get done and you will still be waiting by the phone! Achieve your goals, reach your dreams and let guys see how hot you are! Guys like that!!!!!!

Answer 9

I would say he's unreliable at the least. He could be out with some male friends. Don't jump to conclusions before you know the facts.

Answer 10

You need trust in a relationship. You say he didn't say he was going out anywhere but does he need to tell you everything he does? I think ,if you don't trust him..it isn't going to work. Maybe he is playing poker with his buddies...many variables.