Alot of people tell me that i am pretty and it makes me feel good about myself. But at the end of the day i still feel ugy! What should i do? I cry almost everyday. I feel very sad.
2006-08-25 20:32:00 · 16 answers · asked by Niketa 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You are a teenage girl. You are normal. Don't worry about it, it will pass.
I know you want to be better now, so if that is the case, do something about it.
You can ask us, or you can ask yourself.
Then answer yourself honestly.
Are you pretty? Well look in the mirror. What do you see? Not just the stuff you find things wrong with either.
The good things.
Do you have to set it up so people tell you that you are pretty, by putting yourself down?
If you do stop it.
You do not need anyone to tell you. You can just know it.
The reason you are feeling bad at the end of the day is this reason I just described. do not fish for compliments by using false modesty.
It is not a good way to get self - confidence.
You can have it, if you want to believe it, and not what anyone Else's opinion is. It does not matter. At all.
If you are okay, then stop obsessing about it. You know you are. You are just letting the poor pitiful me come to the surface. You are not that at all are you? I know your not because you are going to stop looking at yourself as a failure. and start looking outside of yourself at the world. It is a big and beautiful place. where really and truly it can't matter how you look. Even Hilary found Bill. okay.
lol laugh out loud is right . right now laugh out loud. You are young and you are invincible. go get em sweetie.
2006-08-25 20:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont live for others, live for yourself. You not in a army camp, you in civilian world, none really bothers about each other. Everyone equally busy to mind their own business, so you too. Have few close friends. Thats it, look on the mirror, think you are a actress of hollywood or your regional movie industry. Take things positively, have a hope you can complete a task when you committed to take it up. Whether you talk online or offline through any means, improve your communications, make it sound different than you used to be before. Avoid unnecessary talks, the more silent you are, the more better for you. Sometimes, problems get invited due to our bad mouth and unwantedly, unnecessarily and at the wrong place and time. So better dont. Think twice or even thrice before you let a word out. Be it by any means of communication coz nowadays a lots due to technology. Then see the changes, or else go see a local mental health doctor for a counselling session at your nearest clinic/hospital. Medidation helps. Close your eyes and sit down relax, chant the lord's holy names.
2006-08-25 21:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Singaporean Youth ( Male ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, basically u don't believe what people said to you and when u see urself in the mirror, u just think and see ur own imperfectness for example u see ur nose is not perfect or else. just try to see the good side of u. Nobody's PERFECT, so just take it easy and try tio have some fun. Don't think much of ur outlook coz there are many beautiful things in this world that u don't want to miss. U can start by thinking of ur education, ur family and make some friends, u're gonna be ok. :-)
2006-08-25 21:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cennet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to look past your skin. See who you are, not what you look like. The better you feel about the kind of person you are, and who you want to be, the more radient you will look on the outside. :D If you are unable to see the beauty in yourself after some introspection, talk to your mother or a counselor. They can help cheer you up!
2006-08-25 20:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm like that too but i'm more like up and down, i wouldn't cry about it, i just feel frustrated. i still look on the good side though. just be happy that somebody out there (lots of people) think you are pretty because not everyone is genetically blessed as you.
2006-08-25 22:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by meilingqian89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is defined with heart and not with the skin. Everywomen or girl in this world is beautiful.thats why god has created for births.
whenever you feel sad or depressed stand in front of the mirror and take few deep breathes and say" i m the most beautiful girl"
best of luck!!!!!!
2006-08-25 20:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by sushma r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman are the most beautiful thing in the universe. Don't cry over such things. it sounds stupid. If only one of them say you're pretty, he/she is lying but u mean alot. means they are not lying!
2006-08-25 20:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by timeout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your self confidence reflects your self personality and thatg intern is shown by your past remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-08-25 20:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by anthony aka wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is your personality
you're just like me
except i don't cry i just feel sad
beauty isn't everything, you need to do things that make you forget caring about beauty
2006-08-25 20:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read some great tips on self confidence and more on this site
2006-08-25 20:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋