Give him all the room he needs and curb your jealousy.
Forget the "I'm going out with someone else, routine"...It's old, passe and dumb.
Here's what to do...say "adios".
2006-08-25 20:36:04
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answered by marnefirstinfantry 5
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It's our human nature to be jealous at times. It's what you do about that jealousy that counts.
You state that you think he's starting or wants to talk to his ex. Do you know if he has? It's time that you stop trying to "fix' whatever it is that is bothering him. Apparently there is some unfinished business with this other, and you are putting yourself in the middle by trying to "fix" the emotions.
Unfortunately you may have to be a little harsh with him. Either he gets over it, or finds out why she still bothers him. If he can't be trusted with these feelings at least you will know the truth and can go on from there. You should not be a "second" when he thinks about the ex.
2006-08-26 08:24:25
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answered by Tweek 3
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Common sense!. You don't have to be jealous about it. Know why?, your boy was intending to get the best from you on leaving his EX. but it has turned out to be the worst. Alternatively, just improve and all he'll do is to forget the girl otherwise if not so you'll end up being more desperate.
2006-08-26 03:48:05
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answered by petros 1
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ok first of all gal "it is NOT wrong to feel jealous"but doing something to hurt someone bcoz ur jealous is.
yes u must be feeling really hurt..its natural..n after all this is ur bf ur talkin about!
i feel u should jus tell him frankly about how ur feelin-n again be careful not to argue.listen carefully to what he has to say n calmly tell him what u want to to.tell him..wether ur hurt /insecure/confused or whatever..
i hope it wroks out well.
all the best gal.
2006-08-26 03:36:42
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answered by bianca 2
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Jealousy is a very ugly thing! to tell you the truth, if he gets upset when he thinks about her, then yes...he still has feelings for her. I don't know about you, but I don't play second fiddle to anyone
2006-08-26 03:41:47
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answered by Jaded 4
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Everybody is a little jealous but remember that if someone is with you it is because they choose to be not because they have to be. So let the jealously go and enjoy your time together.
2006-08-26 03:30:58
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answered by gina 2
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jelousy is normal but if you realy love the person you should trust them and not let jelousy be a big deal.
2006-08-26 12:09:36
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answered by Anonymous
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its not wrong to be jelous. but why is he even talking to his ex?? i guess that means he still wants somthing from her..
2006-08-26 04:09:03
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answered by Anonymous
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no its not wrong to be jealous. its wrong for your boyfriend to hurt you. dump him. now!
2006-08-26 03:42:38
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answered by Grasshopper 5
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