I was always the girl who didn't need a man, except to play with. I had 8 marriage proposals and never wanted to lose myself. I liked playing with cocky guys and setting them straight. I liked the passionate guys. I never let any one get close to me. Now I am head over heels in love with a quiet, nice, sweet, overweight, plain Joe. He is not the best looking, not the worst, he is not that sexual or passionate. But this NICE guy humbled me and has me wrapped around his finger. My friends can't believe this. It is like I am all over him. Why him? That is everyone's question. I use to think I was too good for him but I know he is too good for me.
2006-08-25 20:17:52 · 29 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Recount on the marriage proposals 9 if I count the one I did marry
2006-08-25 20:23:35 · update #1
Wow...to tell you the truth i feel really happy for you. You're in love!!!! And when ure in love you dont need any reasons, theres no place for justifications and logic....just trust your instincts....dont try to be too logical about things, just let your heart decide for once amd u'll be doing the right thing.....And the 'blondie' is just a jealous *****, dont listen to anything she says!
2006-08-25 20:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by megalomaniac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love doent happen when you want it to.Dear this guy might have been made for you and you have met him now.Why wait?Looks and everything doesnt count.What counts is whether you two care for each other or not.When you care for each other, no other difference will be noticed.I am married and it was an arranged marriage and my husband isnt anyting like me.He has the exact opposite tastes of mine and we even fight because we have completely different perceptions.But we never go to sleep without making up and its hard for me to live without him.Its like we know everything about each other and we can talk about anything.What we always want is whom that can be with you when the life just goes through its ups and sowns and i think you might have found the guy.Accept him.You know what when love strikes you always feel as if you are not good enough for the other one.I who thought nothing about my husband started to think the same when we grew close and when i told my first i love you.I thought i was not good enough for him and the funny part is that he thought he was not good enough for me.its just the love bug.Just get over your complex,gain some confidence and tell him ' i love you'
2006-08-26 03:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by golden princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why him? You probably looked at him as a person and not an over weight plain Joe. It is what is inside that really counts.
2006-08-26 03:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for having such a big head before. Karma my dear...karma. but at least you found love. I'm happy for you. Hold on to it as long as you can. I think you just realized that physical things are pretty much worthless without whats inside.
2006-08-26 03:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by kchavis83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel in love! It happens every so often! I was indepent never wanted anyone to anything for me. Wanted to be able to tease and walk away and now not even close. I'm hanging by a thread and doing everything he asks
2006-08-26 03:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might honestly be in love. I hope that happens to me some day. I would like to have an everyday Joe. I think that it would be great to have a "nice" guy
2006-08-26 03:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cara B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u look 4 a guy go 4 personality rather than looks. besides it's the thought that counts.
2006-08-26 03:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by lauren k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get what you deserve a guy that matches your poor attitude and i hope he hurts you like h$ll!I hate cocky women like you who think there sh$t dont stink when in fact it does honey!!But your about to get whats coming to you ..Karma!!Have a fun time !!And i hope he has you begging and a pleading and you cry your eyes out daily,it may knock you down a peg or 2!!
2006-08-26 03:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You probably realized that you will someday fade, as every other flower has faded. Taking the last train out of town is risky, but maybe it has worked for you.
2006-08-26 11:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like plain Joe is REAL...and the real u is coming out ....he is the opposite of the other guys....you are reacting to Joe like that cause he is the kind of guy you always wanted....quiet, nice, & sweet....
2006-08-26 03:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by YedidNefesh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋