.....say - I love you....But you never see him and he never see you.....Just communicate - here on Internet...... I like many people here ,but love????
2006-08-25 20:08:58 · 36 answers · asked by Danica O 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
OK people,but - think.....some people met on Internet and then see one each other.....marry,have family......It is not black.Just want to know it is really possibility -someone who say - I love you really think that......
2006-08-25 20:23:41 · update #1
Whoa, not gonna touch.
2006-08-25 20:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that's love - I think it's infatuation. The person on the other end probably has this fantasy of you that doesn't exist in reality. He is not in love with you - but in love with the fantasy.
That's assuming he isn't using the word "love" to manipulate you.
Just ask yourself . . . is it true love? Or true lust?
There has to be a certain amount of chemistry, for true romantic love. That chemistry can only exist between two people who have physically met. Sending each other pictures doesn't cut it. You might be able to look at somebody's picture and know that chemistry COULD exist; but the world is full of "would have beens", "could have beens", and "should have beens". And do you know what? None of them count.
My advice to you? Get yourself a boyfriend. You don't need the internet for that. Just go anywhere you would normally go for a good time, and look for one there. That way, you are both starting out with at least one thing in common. You both like the same place. DO look for one however. Don't just sit passively by, waiting for one to drop in your lap.
And if you are not interested in a boyfriend? That's OK. You sound like you still have a lot of time in your life to sort things out. And when you DO get serious? Just remember - if you don't get them fast - the good ones really do get taken.
2006-08-25 20:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Techguy2396 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be that they could be in love but not actually with the other person. I could only assume that they are actually in love with the fantasy that they have planted in their minds of the other person. So in no way could it be true love. From experience (not over the internet) in my life I have realized that after 3 years of marriage I still have so much to learn about my husband. I think back to when I first felt that I loved him and realize that it wasn't even close to love. It was more like a serious crush based on the impression I allowed him to make on me. Which is what I was looking for at the time. Ofcourse I refused to acnowledge the characteristics that I normally would be turned off by and refuse to tolerate. It was easier to drown my self in the fantasy of what I thought of him to be and accept that as love. However now I have come to the realization that love is much more.
I beieve that love and hate are two of the the strongest yet abused words ever existed. These words are just thrown around to often that their true meaning is not necessarily the same meaning that is felt by the one who is speaking those words. Those words have become more like a phrase. Just something to nice to say and some times nice to hear. Just be careful who you choose to say I love you to because although many people throw those words around many people catch them and build their life's around them.
2006-08-25 20:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot fall in love on the internet. My sister met a boy on the internet, she liked him. She liked him alot. So much that she flew to australia from the US to meet him. This is when they fell in love, not when they were talking on the internet. They are now happily married and they both love eachother dearly.
Saying "I love you" is just the new thing to do. Spread by 9th grade girls who do not mean a single thing that comes out of their mouth.
2006-08-25 20:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Poopdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that individual believes that is how s/he feels, then believe it ...if you want to. But that does not make the reality of a relationship on a face to face basis - the reality.
Internet relationships - are around 90% going on in the head and can have little to do with the reality of the day to day 1-2-1 relationships in the real world.
Of course, there are always exceptions to this.
Best of luck.
sash.
2006-08-29 05:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't. People fall in love with words easily.
Say u communicate for years and feels u have chemistry and then u meet and u have NO chemistry, the feeling of 'love' will dissolve to being very platonic.
Also it's very hard to express emotions online, you gotta be able to feel touch and sense. After a while, it gets too hard to work, especially if he is in the other side of the world.
2006-08-25 20:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the correct category? Be careful using the Internet as a way to meet people. Your always hearing on the news about some crazy nut who goes about trying to pick up women just to have his way with them. Be very careful!
2006-08-25 20:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone told me last week on here that he loved me and it just freaked me out and offended me, I had done nothing to encourage him, I answered one of his questions and in no way was there anything in that answer regarding love or anything even leaning towards it, of course I know he was been pathetic and trying to wind me up, I just reported him, it could have been a young gullible girl who he said that too and what effect would it have had on her, I am a very happily married woman and would never doubt my husband or myself by been so pathetic as to encourage other men, just be careful as there are some weirdo's out there who can be very harmful in their loose interpretations of love to vulnerable people.
2006-08-26 04:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have never met i dont' think it's possible to love soneome. It maybe the love of who you are, but what happens if the real you in flesh does not match the expectations? I think it's definitely possible to know a person better than by dating, but beware of a weirdo, i am not trying to scare you off but you can't be sure who you are talking to untill you've seen them.
2006-08-25 20:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you even like someone on the internet whom you've never met before?
i think what you mean is like or love chatting with the person
maybe that's what he meant too
or maybe that was just an expression like 'sweet dreams', or 'love you' before going to bed
2006-08-25 20:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If some wacko says they love me over the internet, I block them. I've got a boyfriend for Pete's sake!
2006-08-25 20:11:45 · answer #11 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋