I am in a wheelchair - no biggie I've lived that way my whole life. One of my best friends betrayed me & dumped my 3 beautiful children at Children Family Services & they won't give them back....I feel suicidal & like I am dying inside....PLEASE don't give me ANY crap about "you should be happy" or about what God wants for me, Right now I don't care!!! I go to counseling in a few weeks but I am looking for advice or just real genuine friends right now.......Please help!!
2006-08-25 19:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by Catcanscratch 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Now I won't give you any crap about god since I don't believe in it and I'm pretty pessimistc myself so no "Don't worry, be happy!" stuff either. Life gets tough sometimes, you just have to hang in there. If you don't think that you have anything to live for at times think about those who care about you or need you. If you won't live for yourself, live for them. I always think that there are people out there who have it ten times worse than me. No matter what situation your in, I think that applies to everyone. I've been to counseling myself and it wasn't fun. Some people say it was freeing or what not. No offense to anyone but I'd rather not spill my guts to some stranger and have them annalyze my life. I hope all goes well none-the-less.
2006-08-25 19:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Keebler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things get better when you effect change in your own lifestyle. You need to cultivate a friendship that is lasting. If you are suicidal you would only be hurting your children in a way that will last for a lifetime. It is also a permanent decision for a temporary problem. Call a hot line right now. You will find someone who wants to help, cares and be a friend. That is why they do what they do. Good luck!
2006-08-26 02:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into the brighter side of life.Aim to be better mentally if not physically so your children will look forward into meeting a person with a strong character one day and not a complete stranger with an attitude issue.And be proud of your achievements and great persona seeing you go through those rough roads in life.It's never smooth & easy I know but you can make it comfortable and cozy while walking through it.Bitterness and remorses won't bring you a healthier mind neither so avoid messing around with those negative energies if you can.Put some meaning into your life and keep the faith.
You have to stand out of that misery by staying positive even at your most down moments.A will that's so strong steer the body to recover so who knows what wonders it will bring you day by day..
bless u!
2006-08-26 02:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can think of just off the top o` me head, is that you need to calm down and realize that you need to be in a much better frame of mind, if you are going to get your kids back, you will need to assess your life at the moment and be honest with yourself about anything that might need to change or be adjusted, so that family services will give you back your children. You are going to have to be upbeat, happy and willing to do whatever family services needs you to do in order to get your kids back, remember, you are doing this for your kids, which means doing WHATEVER is needed. Again, whatever is needed, starts with you getting rid of those feelings of suicide and dying inside.
2006-08-26 02:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by dukefritz79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure to be with your family. They love you and support you. About your friend, I am sorry but that's life. Sometimes we have stones in our ways that need to be ignored. You don't need someone like that in your life, just let it go. About your children, this system is really unfair in most of the cases. Demonstrate the government you are capable of taking care of your kids, get a lawyer and try anything to get them back. Those kids are the only ones who will give you strength and be there for you, no one else. Just be thankful that you are alive and can solve problems. We can have pretty bad situations, but in my humble opinion the only one that cant be fixed is when we are dead, so... the world is yours, rock it.
2006-08-26 02:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your husband or the father of your children? Parents or grandparents or siblings around to help?
Why won't Child & Family services give your kids back? How old are they?
Have you gotten a lawyer.
Only you can make your life better, stop feeling sorry for yourself, put that energy into fighting to get your family back.
2006-08-26 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something i have seen happen often. Friends or family get mad and report parents to child protective services. If She had no legitimate reason to do this then you should be getting you children back soon but if she did...you stil have a chance to get your children back but they will have guidelines you must follow..unless they can prove that you are un-recoverable from whatever it is that lead your kids to the CPS. This is tough call because I do not know the whole story but keep your head up.
2006-08-26 02:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your life has been such a mess, but don't commit suicide. Whether you believe it or not, your life WILL turn around at some point, I promise. Just live for the good times in your life. I know they may be minimal, but that just makes them that much more special.
2006-08-26 02:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view, yes your life will be better and you will have a bright future ahead of you just stay postive and have fun in life wherever or not your in a wheelchair or not, is life that count,,
arent you happy that your alive and able to have so many close friends and family who loves you, and love the way you are, because your special to them in a way.. make the most of your life and have fun, and one day things will happen.. good luck on everything =)
2006-08-26 02:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.. but i hope so (really). But well...the truth is life's a *****, and it ain't fair :S Maybe being u in this situation (in a wheelchair) has made u seen life different from us. Maybe you're life is less stressing than other's. Don't suicide, there's always people who love you and need you...
2006-08-26 02:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by liferulzalot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋