2006-08-25 19:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by katina m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
can i see myself living the rest of my life with this person?
do i trust this person 110% (100% is not enough)?
do we have the same values and goals regarding issues such as careers, family , and religion?
what does my instinct say about getting married to this person (are there any little voices in my head saying something isnt right, even a small one)
do i feel like i could talk to this person about anything?
is this person always respectful, kind, generous,etc (add in any other qualities that are super important to you)?
does this person make my life seem happier and more complete?
2006-08-25 19:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it definitely depends on how long you have known him and how much you still wish to find out.
You need to find out what he believes are grounds for divorce, will he work through things, or just leave because things get tough. Also, when you disagree does he belittle you, or try to come to a compromise? What are his expectations of marriage? Are those things that are ok with you? What about a normal sex life, what does he consider normal? How does he feel about children? How about the division of labor in the house? Finances?
The list goes on and on. None of it is too romantic, but should really help you from being greatly disappointed in the future.
2006-08-25 19:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by cutiekewterson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few
whats his financial status is he indebt
does he have homo tendencies this includes
dressing in womens clothing and underwear
DLow
Is he a mamas boy
How does he treat his mother whats his relationship like with his mom
what he expects from his wife
The big one Does He have Kids,How many by how many women.
Dont want or need no baby mama drama please trust me on this issue.
Does he know how to love and be loved
does he have the ability to completely trust his wife
Above all is he the type of man that can be trusted
Whats the longest monogamous relationship hes been in?
2006-08-25 19:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask how they handle (or would handle):
Money,Kids/discipline etc,Pets,their mom,friends,family,work,
spiritual life, vacations ANYTHING important to you.
Marriage is more than saying I do... it is physical, emotional, mental and spiritual as you are sharing so much- for life- with this person. Make sure everything is covered. Seek some pre marital lessons..... they can help! Don't think you know how they will react.... life's biggest learning lesson is marrying someone you "thought" you knew!!!!!
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2006-08-25 20:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by erc_denise_childs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions about things that are the most important to you, to see if you're compatible enough in those areas to really make it last.
2006-08-25 19:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see yourself beside me, in 50 years or so, on our front porch in our rocking chairs?
2006-08-25 19:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by hello2tlf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a lying cheating broke mofo?, do you think my sister's hot? do you yell and scream? are you passive aggressive? will you still spend time with me and not be glued to the Xbox after we get married?
2006-08-25 19:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by creativebeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he treat his mother? How many jobs has he had? Can you see this man changing your Depends?
2006-08-25 20:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How:
- when he is not happy.
- When he is angry.
- When he tells me love words.
- When he tells me to do something it is difficult for me to do.
- When he is away and I have men's company.
- When I want to do something that he wants me not to do.
2006-08-25 19:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see us together forever? Will you still love me even if i became fat and ugly?
2006-08-25 19:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋