I'm doing everything within the friend boundary.And on top of it I dont even like her.I think she told him she found me attractive--but she said really that was it.How do I approach him so he doesnt punch me in the face next time we meet?lol
2006-08-25 18:51:43 · 21 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She told me "dont worry".But the guy has threaten me...
2006-08-25 18:55:43 · update #1
This will all blow over one of these days. Don't let it bother you, just ignore this little immature thing that is going on and be the bigger man.
2006-09-01 14:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be casual about it, because any other way would be seen as agression and that's probably when he would try punch you. You may not be doing anything however you making your friend's boyfriend very jealous and is very threatened by you, which is why he doesnt want her around you. Try talk about it where you can both be cool about it.
2006-08-25 18:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your friend take his girlfriend away from another guy? Maybe he knows first-hand what a little sl*t she can be. And if she already told him you were attractive...I'm not sure I blame your friend.
If you like the guy, you should respect his wishes. So what if he's a little jealous? Nobody's perfect, and he's your friend, right? You'll see less of him, but you'll probably earn his respect and it could strengthen the friendship.
If you don't really like the guy, you might want to try boffing the girlfriend. Are you sure you don't like her?
2006-08-25 19:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by AZNYC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. If what he thinks matters that much to you then find a time when she's not around and be a little nicer to him. I dunno, offer him a beer or something. But not too much. Just enough so he knows you're ok.
And if you see them together, make it a point to greet him first.
He's a little insecure and that's normal so give him time to get used to you. Eventually, you'll just be another face instead of "that guy."
2006-08-25 19:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by spindoccc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her as much, but tell her why, first... so she doesn't claim, later, that your being a jackass or anything, and not talking to her as much. But.... Keep your distance from him, because he obviously thinks there is something more going on than there really is. He's just jealous. Maybe he doesn't have the best self-esteem?
2006-09-02 18:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If as you say you don't even like her why be around her then.
Apart from that the boyfriend is showing signs of becoming a control freak.
Just use your commonsense and leave them both alone.
2006-08-25 19:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a 99% chance that he's jealous of you.1% is that he's just worried that he may lose her to you.what makes you think she told him that?just be strong and try not to go beyond that 'boundary'.let's just face the fact that in the end,someone is going to end up hurt...just make sure that ain't you.
2006-09-02 01:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by lavsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just ask him what the problem is... explane to him that you don't like her in a r"elationship" way, just as a "friend-I-should-stay-away-from-b/c-she's-my-friend's-girl"kinda way
And if that don't work, you'll get the s h i t kicked out of you
2006-09-01 14:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with you...the reason he doesn't want you to hang out with her is because SHE finds YOU attractive. That made your buddy very insecure.
2006-08-30 07:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man just try to sit him down and tell me that u and her are just friends and tell me that u do not want any thing to do with her because she is his and that u do not want to come in the middle of them
2006-08-25 18:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by jaybyrd77554 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋