why is it that i become a different person when i get into a relationship? When i was single, i was carefree and happy. but when i get into a relationship i become a complete person. i mean i love the changes but does it happen to everyone?
2006-08-25 18:48:19 · 11 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sadly, when we get involved, sometimes, we do let our lives to be overtaken by the relationship, and by the other person. That's why so many people feel like they have just been released from prison, when the relationship is over. They have essentially been in "prison", by allowing their needs to be ignored. Love changes everything, for the good, and sometimes, for the bad. You must learn to be happy for yourself, by yourself, before you can truly be a complete person with someone else. We are meant to complement someone's life, not over take it.
2006-08-25 18:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you "become a complete person"? Its great that you love being in (a healthy it sounds like) loving relationship! yet you are a complete person on your own
Do you know about Artemis, the virgin? You probably do. A reminder - She was a virgin not in the definition of always having obstained from intercourse but in that she was COMPLETE and WHOLE, unto herself, she belonged to herself. Did you know that? Its really an essential aspect of who she is. please remember that there is wisdom in this that can actually enhance intimacy in a relationship
No to answer your question I have not found that I become a complete person when I have fallen in love. I already was/am a complete person although I LOVE love, all kinds, and being in a loving relationship with the right person is absolutely sacred. I would only want this with someone who is also a complete person, who would compliment and enhance me
yes yes yes fall in love surrender to Love be restored in love
and remember who are at your core
2006-08-26 02:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Milk Maid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I make a cool friend but as soon as we make a commitment I get all possessive and insecure and overly sensitive and I start playing games to see if you really care about me, it's a mess that's why I'm single to this day 2yrs. now.
2006-08-26 01:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt happen to everyone but some it does. try not to change your attitude because that's what made him attracted to you , right??? never lose your spunk.. but when getting into a relationship there are changes but always make them for the better.....
2006-08-26 01:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to keep acting the same when I'm with someone, but there's always some changes, big or small.
2006-08-26 01:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You now have something to protect and you will change your personality in order to do that - quite common - don't worry about it.
2006-08-26 01:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by CLOCKWORK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yap...be glad!! I presume you got the "big fish", i mean things work the way which will be good for you, beyond your expectations... the common denominator here is the person who made you feel this way...
2006-08-26 02:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup normal its a part of the breeding cycle so that our population does not become extincted
2006-08-26 01:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-08-26 01:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh it does, love can change alot of things even small ones
2006-08-26 01:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by LaLii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋