1 of my freinds askd me 2 have sex wit him.........without even askin me out 1st.....but im only 12!!! wat do i say??!?! hes the same age....i used to like him...like a year ago....if i say no...i dont want him to b mad....but if i say yes...i dont want our friendship 2 b wierd!!!
2006-08-25 18:40:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are too young to understand sex and its implications.
If he treats you as a true friend, he will not force it on you. If he does, then its good to break this friendship. In life, you can't have the best of both worlds.
When you are more mature in your thinking, you will not regret breaking this friendship.
Protect yourself first, my dear.
2006-08-25 18:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Asia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are only 12 years old i mean obviously he didnt ask you out first so therefore he just wants to have sex with you...He probably ....no not probably... he dont know what he is doing anyway. Save yourself unitl you are good and ready to have sex. If you are going to do that just because someone is going to get mad at you then you are not using your head too much at all. I mean do yourself a favor and dont do it because he just going to tell all of his friends and then you are going to find yourself in the bathroom at school crying because everybody talking about you. His friendship isnt worth you being hurt in the end and his friendship isnt worth waiting to have sex until you are good and ready. Although I encourage you to wait until you are married if you dont just make sure you love that person and he loves you so it can be special.
2006-08-25 18:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no. Who cares if he is mad. Wait until you are ready. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want to do. I was when I was 13 and I still regret it and I am 28 now. If I could do it all over again I would kick him where it hurts.
2006-08-25 18:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and he is no friend to ask you something like that. The longer you wait the more meaningful the experience will be for you and your partner......like at least 6 more years and hopefully in the name of love.
2006-08-25 18:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by jidwg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 12 year olds are already acting like little sluts. dont even think about having sex with him go to skool and study
2006-08-25 18:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you even have your period yet? He's got a couple more years till puberty- why are you even considering this? Say 'no' and if he gets mad, too bad.
2006-08-25 20:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really too young for that, he probably coulnt be carefull if he tried, and you really dont want him getting you pregnant, if you have started having a period yet, its very very possible.
2006-08-25 18:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by K E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG say no!!! trust me on this, if you do have sex with him you will regret it later!!!!!
2006-08-25 18:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about "no"?
2006-08-25 18:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋