it never fails evertime i think i have found her or she has found me im stuck in the friendship zone unable to get out. is there something im doing wrong?
2006-08-25 18:32:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Secret: Women are more scared of everything tha we will ever be.
Thus they will submit to confidence and strength, good or bad. Tryy being good and strong, not good and weak
2006-08-25 18:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Time 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase it is one think to be nice, it is another to be a wimp. While no woman wants a man to hurt her, women don't want men that are too nice. They are too easy to try and please them. You have to learn how to be nice, and yet at the same time seems less desperate.
It is okay to tell a woman you think she looks nice, but don't call 5 times a day.
When planning a date don't let the woman pick all the places by saying "you pick". Take charge sometimes, and suprise her.
In other words be powerful, just don't be a jerk, or to weak and you will be fine.
2006-08-26 01:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Artistic Prof. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to answer this question without actually knowing you.....nice, good guys are GREAT and definitely boyfriend material....but there is a line that can be crossed. Being nice and being a suck-up/weak are two different things.
2006-08-26 01:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either getting users or just women who want to be your friend. I get that kind of crap all the time too. Believe it or not. Mine usually happens when I won't give it up to them. All of the sudden they don't call or I am just a friend. People are a**holes and that is life. Women are dirty and will use you. One day you will find someone and all of them can kiss your butt. got me?
2006-08-26 01:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're letting yourself be used. You can still be a good guy and not be a doormat. Being a doormat gives your girl very little confidence in you as a serious mate.
2006-08-26 01:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by John F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just don't know a good thing when they see it. I don't get it- being a 'good guy' has always been a requirement for me. I hope you have better luck next time
2006-08-26 02:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You are too passive. Assert your desires more to her. Let her know how you really feel about her, and where you would like your relationship/friendship to go. Women hate wimps!!!
2006-08-26 01:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by greg j. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was my best friend in high school! He was definitely the "nice guy" and I loved him for that. Just be yourself and the women who don't want you realize what they could have when it is gone. Cuz believe me sooner or later it will be gone!!!!
2006-08-26 01:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP LOOKING 4 HER, sit back relax get u 2gether and let her come 2 u! Stop trying to make every woman "THE ONE", and first make yourself the one. Geesh, get a grip and stop looking. If you be u, they will come.
2006-08-26 01:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Ladeshug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"females" generaly feel safer that way they have someone to talk to with a male insite that they dont have to impress plus its always more comforting to be hugged and reasured by a guy
just dont give up e-mail me if you want to talk more
goodluck!
2006-08-26 01:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋