put yourself in this situation. you've been married for 15 years to the first love of your life. he has never performed oral sex on you. it isn't something he wants to do or seems willing to do. what do you do?
2006-08-25 18:25:18 · 15 answers · asked by x o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I do think they are missing out. Married couples should never become so inhibited. It is wonderful to explore and be explored.
2006-08-25 18:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u giving him oral sex? if yes then he is being incredibly selfish. If no then I guess its between u two to talk about what u would like to experience in bed together.
I have a girlfriend who never gave her husband any oral but always wanted it from him! I thought she was selfish. He left her eventually.
If u are each others first love he might be scared of trying, have u talked to him about it?
Do u live in Western Australia? if so there are male hookers that will come to ur house and do it pretty cheap if you just wanna know what it feel like lol
2006-08-25 22:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I listen you. i'm besides a 21 year old virgin. to this point as i'll comprehend they prefer the idea that you're a virgin because they recognize that you're literally not in basic terms going to knock them up and leave them. yet at and round 21 they are looking more beneficial so in direction of untamed adult men, a minimum of maximum of them. in basic terms wait a lengthy time period and also you ought to hit upon a lady that extremely likes that.
2016-11-27 22:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by chaplean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if you are missing out but I can tell you that I thought I was for the first 3 years of my marriage, and then it happened and for me yes I was missing out.
2006-08-25 19:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sex is something that you have to try but you have to give a little to get a little and if you or him don't know what to do try it and till each other what fills good and what you don't like.
2006-08-25 19:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not missing out on anything, cause i don't like it, and it suks anyways, for me. Touching feels better, if your man knows how to touch and play with it, then it'll be the best thing ever, i know i'm happy, what about you?
2006-08-25 19:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you miss something you never had,peoples experience very and foreplay tends to make up a lot of ground.
2006-08-25 18:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by ricky_deal2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not mising out on anything. It's not like it's necessarily better than other things. If you are happy with your marriage otherwise - forget about the whole stupid thing and enjoy what you have.
2006-08-25 19:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother had the same problem with my dad and she use to talk to him about it but he had no interest in it and she finally left him and found a man to do all the thinds orally that dad would not do.
2006-08-29 11:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, oral is so intimate and wonderful
2006-08-25 18:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋