This girl lked me she was pretty but i was chasing after another girl. she goes back to her old boyfriend and gets pregnant. I feel that if iwould have just listen to her i would could have prevented this. now she is dropping out of school. I feel it all my fault. is it?
2006-08-25 17:41:38 · 20 answers · asked by Chris T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Chances are since she was having unprotected sex you may have been lucky not to have been that guy...not to say if you were going to have sex you wouldn't use protection..which you should. It's not your fault..they were the ones that made the mistake. You'll probably always have girls that like you but you need to follow your heart. Be careful! You don't need a baby at this age. Let yourself off the hook! Good Luck!
2006-08-25 17:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything happends for a reason. its not your fault shes a big girl she made her decision all by herself.
It takes two to get pregnant not three.
2006-08-26 00:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by bumblebeetuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is not your fault, it was her choice to go back to him. and no one said you had to like her so don't feel responsible, it was her bad choices that made her get pregnant and drop out and you really couldn't have done a lot to prevent it.
don't be so down on yourself :] smile!!!
2006-08-26 02:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by danish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is all your fault. Of course not! You didn't get the little twit pregnant. We are all responsible for our own lives, and she messed up big.
2006-08-26 00:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not your fault. She made her choices. You did not force her to make mistakes. She chose them on her own.
Even if you had liked her... there is no guarantee that she still would not have gone back to the guy.
Let it go. You did not cause this. I promise.
2006-08-26 00:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not ur fault. she cnt hve liked you THT much id she went bak to her ex and u culdve been the father. if u feel bad b her friend and dnt judge her and call her a slut or nethink. help her out she oprob feels awful
2006-08-26 01:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' not your fault if you didn't want to go with her you don't have to. you don't suppose to go with her so she won't get pregnant or because she is dropping out of school, you go with her because you have feelings for you obvious you wasn't feeling her because you was flirting with someone else.
2006-08-26 00:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can feel for her but she made her choice , it's not your fault on this issue. One time I felt if I would of listen to my friend , he would not of got in trouble but it was his choice to make that decision. People are responsible for their own actions.
2006-08-26 00:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not your fault, your not the father but you are her friend talk to her, try to get her to re-think dropping about of school, i bet she is really scared right now and i bet her parents are too happy with her so just be her friend, she needs you right now
2006-08-26 00:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bryn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't, everyone makes decisions for themselves and she chose to have unprotective sex and she got the result of her dumb choice. You did nothing, so take it easy on yourself.
2006-08-26 00:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Panada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋