i guess, this is not really a question, but, an observation of my life in general.everytime my spouse was mad or violent, or hit me, i would mess around, trying to find the "right" guy. hahahaha, what a joke . i just made a mess of my life.
2006-08-25 17:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your parents are your angels and always be grateful for them and don't burn your bridges with them. To be honest it appears you have a low self esteem and constantly looking for the comfort elsewhere when it really starts with you. Somewhere down the line I feel you have lost your own identity and don't know where to start or begin to get yourself back in control because you allowed someone to control you. My advise is to take time for yourself without a relationship and rebuild YOU! Make you that person of beauty, confident and strong as you should be and things will look up. Meditate and soul search within.
2006-08-25 18:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by CMTaylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're grateful to have them, and you should be. Now, how about doing them, and more importantly yourself a favor? Stop worrying about men all together, and get your life together in such a way that you don't need them! I tell my girls all the time, get your schooling in, get a good job, deal from a position of autonomy. You'll be in a much better position to deal with a relationship and starting a family if you don't need a man, you've simply found one you think may be suitable. It's not too late for you.
2006-08-26 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope your life is getting better. We have all done things that we are not proud of. Not to make excuses for you but you were reacting to the situation you were in. You may have made big mistakes in the past but you can still make positive changes in your life now. I hope the abusive spouse is out of your life. Never give up.
2006-08-26 00:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Melm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your past sins too much. Get yourslef together, leave the guy who hit you. This is really bad, and this is enough reason to live him forever. Once you leave him, you don't need to worry about being unfaithful to him anymore. Just give yourself a fresh start, and love your parents and pray for them.
2006-08-26 02:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lean to love yourself first before anyone else will love you. You should always end a current relationship before starting another one. Sounds like you are on the right track now. congratulations.
2006-08-26 10:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself together and get a l;ife for yourself. Do not worry too much about sins. Don't you remember about the part where He said' "Let he amongst you who have not sinned...." Pick yourself up and if your parents are the one that helped you, thank your lucky stars that they are still there for you.
2006-08-26 00:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by ancalagon2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋