Bigger Boobs?

Question

I have big boobs for my age (I'm 13 with 34C's) (I've asked a question likle this before). Is that okay? How do I show them off without being a slut? I've got them and want to flaunt them- but I need to keep a little dignity. Please do not reply if you are going to say anything along the lines of 'you're only 13' I'm on the A Honor Roll, so don't talk about me being trashy with no goals besides sex. Girls just wanna have fun ;-) <3 LIv

Thnaks for your answer so far... But, I do think that I wasn't saying that I wanted attention, I kind of wanted to show them without having them fall out... And, my parents? They're out on a date :rolls eyes: I'm not going for sex or anything, but on a girl's night when all of youro ther friends CAN wear low cut shirt you want to feel like you have something sexy but cute.

Answer 1

Hey i had the same problem when i was your age, its hard because you dint wanna like be like "oo look at me" but yea you of coarse like any girl wanna show off what you got. I recommend wearing solid color shirts and maybe not too low cut but you know those shirts like you wear a tank top under neath them i wore those all the time but also don't wanna show up and be like "boom" so make sure your bra is one that is not so padded up uplifting :)


hope this helped

Answer 2

Thrilled 2 hear ur on the A honor roll but that's beside the point. If ur showing them then that's where everyone will be looking. I'm 27 & do remember being 13. I also know a 15 & 16 yr old who r pregnant right now. I would not go any further than a tight shirt. That's even pushing it. Respect yourself & keep their skin covered. I can tell u w/ certainty that no good will come from showing them.

Answer 3

Flaunting and "showing off" your breasts will only make you look like a sex object to others and people will not take you seriously. Have some self respect and dress yourself to make others respect you for being an intelligent and mature person. When you are older, you can dress sexy on occassion, like to go to parties, to go on dates or other fun places. However school is not a party, it's a place where you are learning and setting the path to your future career. Don't burn it by getting known as a flirty girl who flits around in party clothes all day hoping someone will notice her. You will need to have good recommendations from your teachers for college too.

Answer 4

Your question reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. She had ginormous boobs (confirmed DD) by age 12, yet still had a small, petite frame.

She was very pretty and very smart -- almost a bookworm, but by the time I had dated her at age 18, she had gone through her entire teenage years under CONSTANT fire of sexual attention and sexual pressure -- mostly from older/adult men. If she could have, she would have hid her boobs completely, as she had no childhood after age 12.

Rather than hiding her boobs or staying away from guys, she dated older guys -- basically she picked who would scare away other guys from pressuring her.

As a result she was sexualized very young and her life (even today) was/is not what it could have been or what she wanted it to be. (by the way, she and I are the same age, but looked and acted a lot older than 17 at the time)

My advice is to HOLD ON TO YOUR CHILDHOOD and don't let a lot of adult attention force you into adulthood. Save what you got for when you are older. You will have your entire adult life to enjoy and exploit big boobs -- you will be much happier waiting until then rather than spending decades resenting your boobs for ruining your adolescence.

It is just a matter of timing. Some time you will be very glad you have big boobs -- as long as they don't rob you of your childhood in the meantime.

As old fashioned as this may sound, plan on spending your teenage years wearing clothes which allow you to "hide" your features a bit. You will be 1000 times happier if *you* control when and what kind of attention you receive.

Answer 5

Well I'm 14 an I can tell YOU that i know when you feel like u want ta do something wild and dress a with a little spice but don't push it to much boo becuz now a days you got men and young men that are pervs and will try and trick u or do something bad to u so don't push it no more than a tight shirt.

Answer 6

being 13 with big boobs, and showing them off never led to anything good...TRUST ME. it mostly just got me the wrong attention from guys who saw me as a kind of "loose" girl regardless of how many times I made the straight A honor roll. guys mostly believe what you are willing to show, you are willing to share, if you're not. DON"T. trust me they ALREADY know you have big boobs whether you cover them or not. guys have told me these things about how they think. if you are smart and beautiful, which I am sure you are, they will like you no matter what. Don't put yourself out there like that if you are not really like that...

Answer 7

if you've got it, flaunt it. You dont want to be a s l u t. So make sure not to wear anything too low cut! Remember that guys should like you for who you are, not cause you have big boobs.

Answer 8

You don't have to intentionally show them off. They are big enough where they will show themselves off, the biggest mistake is too try too hard. People can always tell when you are trying to draw attention to them. Although, being a big busted gal myself, I would say that V neck shirts and/or polo shirts are the most flattering without being skanky.

Answer 9

For a 13 yr old 34 C's are quite ample.
I would suggest a V tyoe neck line.. not too deep though. Look around in different shops and try some on.. you will find out what looks skanky and what looks nice.

Answer 10

Look, trust me your boobs are getting PLENTY of attention already. Any attempt you make to highlight them in a provocative way will only send a bad message about yourself and you will be treated accordingly. It may not be the kind of attention you want.