Ok so i'm gonna sum this up. This girl liked me and i wouldn't go out wid her cause i had no feelings for her but and i told her that and put it as nice as possible and said she was a nice beautiful young lady and that we can still be friends and that i don't want to hurt you. Well she is a freshmen going to my school this year from a diff school by mine. We talked through my space and phone but never in person or met in person. She is talking bad about me in comments to people and trying to get my 12 year old sister involved and i don't want any of this drama! she is saying how ugly i am and she never really thought i was hot and all this other stuff and i never did anything to her but i what i told you what i said in the message and when i wrote that message i was as NICE as possible and used its me not you factor you can even ask my best friend marcy! When school starts well for her it be august 29 cause freshmen orientation and me the 30. im afraid she is gonna spread rumors etc ..
2006-08-25 17:16:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't want drama or anything. I got over this and thought she did too but she just recently brought it back up and is threatening to have her guy friend and her beat me up at home coming and all this bull****. I'm afraid she is gonna start fals rumors and talk **** about me but im not gonna do any of that to her. im over the thing and we never even went otu and im glad i didnt cause she's possesive and two faced liar who runs her mouth and junk. What should i do?
2006-08-25 17:20:09 · update #1
I didn't want to hrut her by going out wid her when i don't have feelings for her she isn't my type and we have nothing in common and i am NOT a bad person and did not say one mean thing to or about her. i didn't want this to happen!
2006-08-25 17:21:42 · update #2
What do i do if she approaches me in school and starts **** wid me? I don't want to stoop to her level. I'm always usually id my best friend marcy in school and if she talks to us we ignroe her be like we dunno you bye go aay. is this a good idea?
2006-08-25 17:27:19 · update #3
get a restraining order
2006-08-26 03:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So your point is that you are afraid of bumping into a girl younger than yourself?
I don't see that being a problem.
The less you say the better. Eventually she will find someone she likes. You will do the same. This is high school. Everybody is going through relationships like they are toilet paper. Two weeks into school she will be with her second boyfriend and who knows where you will be.
As for the rumors, if you don't listen to them then they don't matter. Get used to that fact. Your friends know better and your enemies, well, they are your enemies.
2006-08-25 19:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't exist boy if you keep ignoring her! Go on with your life! Don't feel responsible on anything that she will do. She's NUTS and DESPERATE! I pity her...
Don't give her the attention that she wants from you. Don't dignify her acts either. If she spreads around nasty rumors, get her to the principal. It's a clear case of blackmail from the start. Dont stoop to her level, ok?
By the way, she might be having hormonal problems :)
2006-08-25 17:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by dULz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh about it if someone in school mentioned it. Say something like ya that's what I get for letting her down nicely. Then also say because of her insecurities or why else would she spread those rumors about me. Also tell this girl to stop it because you saved all your conversation and you'll get it printed and show anyone who dares accuse you of anything related to her. this would put a stop to her.
Be strong, I know how it feels like and unfortunately kids can be so cruel.
Good luck and God Bless
2006-08-25 17:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your a sensitive kind of person and that's ok but never let a person down by saying "We can be friends" girls use it all the time and guys hate it, but i wouldn't be worried to much about what shes saying about you by the time school starts , because I'm sure over the summer every one in school is going to be sharing there experiences and there drams, so you wont wont be the main attraction. Give it a couple days and it all will be forgotten because she will find a new guy to like.
2006-08-25 17:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by vicki s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers are known for spreading rumors. Everyone knows it's all b/s. No one will believe her. Just ignore her.. go on with ur normal day......... someday, she will just be a memory of some idiot girl from school. Life is short... you're adult life is WAY longer than ur life as a kid. ... Just be urself... don't even think about her.
2006-08-25 17:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son had a similar problem two years ago. I'll tell you what I told him. Take the high ground. When you see this girl in school, be pleasant to her, nothing more. Be yourself with all of your friends. they'll make up their own minds about both of you. Now, two years later, my son is popular with most of the kids in his class as well as the school. The girl who tried to blacklist him? One of the least popular girls in school.
2006-08-25 17:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl has issues and now you know that you were better off without her.. so don't trip, people who know you will figure this chick is a psycho freshman with serious insecurity problems and cant handle rejection. they will also know that all the crap she talks isn't true, so relax and enjoy another high school yr, cuz thez are the yrs to remember not stress about...have fun!!!!!
2006-08-25 17:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by california chick.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth, deny the stuff she's saying. Be happy you didn't go out with her, she sounds like a wacko to me. Good luck.
2006-08-25 17:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Panada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh highschool drama how I missed thee. Just ignore her and it'll go away. Anything you try and do is gonna make it worse. After a few weeks it will all blow over.
2006-08-25 17:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by diggerfloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember. The truth will set you free.
And you are just a babe. You shouldn't be worrying about this. Get busy with school activities.
2006-08-25 17:19:05 · answer #11 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋