They love each other very much. They are always together. The make each other extremely happy. What do you think are the pros and cons?
2006-08-25 16:36:53 · 11 answers · asked by passionboarder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One pro would be that she gets a man who's had a chance to experience life and appreciate the goodness of simple things, but that's also negative in that she's probably at the age where she'd like to get out and sew a few oats. Of course, there's the obvious difference of the older getting the finer younger lover, be it man or woman. She, on the other hand, gets a man who's hopefully been around the block a few times and knows how to be a good lover. He gets an enthusiastic lover who should be willing and able to fulfill his desires. That stuff aside, there's the enjoyment he'll receive from being able to show her things about life and exposing her to different things she's not experienced. She will be able to give him youth, with her exuberance for life. There will be times when there's nothing to talk about, no shared commonality of times. There will eventually be a problem with him needing nursing while she still has life to explore. He will tire as she has stamina. I hope these have given some pro's and con's for you!
2006-08-25 16:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the initiating you ought to in simple terms qualify as a grimy old guy in case you've been thinking courting a 16 365 days old. I vehemently disagree with the guy who compared it to rape, that's ludicrous thinking her age is 25. My suggestion is to reply certainly to her attentions, ask her to out to lunch or a movie and in basic terms see the position it is going. you're making it too complicated by using demanding about the way it is going to finally end up before that's even all started. keep an open concepts, what do you ought to lose? If her interest to you seems to be in simple terms as a chum, you eventually end up with a sparkling chum. i don't think of you're flawed in any respect in wondering she's dropping tricks. when you're, which back I doubt, now is the time to make certain. My youngest daughter married a guy 16 years older than she. With my concepts of stereotypes in the initiating i attempted to communicate her out of it. they have been married 10 years now, very thankfully, and that's now a kin shaggy dog tale to call her husband 'Guido', which changed into quite slightly my first concepts before i actual met him.
2016-11-27 21:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by kinnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 49 year old better be rich.
2006-08-25 17:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i dont see why there should be a problem it is the emotional your after you are in LOVE with the man or woman not the body...it is the soul in the body...the personality of that person..wish you luck love and happiness :)
2006-08-25 16:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem at all! I have dated someone much older and it was great!Who cares what others think!
2006-08-25 16:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by iluvsunsets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really loved eachother then the age doesnt matter their both legal age. Who cares bout the age difference? I wouldn't if I was really in love!
2006-08-25 16:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Am I in Love? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as neither of you are married i say go for it. your both legal
2006-08-25 16:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man is able to make her satisfy and she wants to be satisfy from him then who is the hell between them ...........???
2006-08-25 18:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by NS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a 5 year plan, like "don't die???"
2006-08-25 16:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Problem, its OK.
2006-08-25 16:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋