2006-08-25 16:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
First of all, you should be talking to him not Yahoo Answers.
Tell him that you are concerned about all the time he spends going out without you. If he gets mad or resentful, then he just gave you your answer, dump the insensitive jerk. Cheating or not, he should be at least a little considerate of your feelings. If he gives you an honest answer about why he's out so much with the guys, the just ask if you could spend some more time with him, or even join him with his friends.
Trust is a fragile thing, and it's very important in any relationship. Without it, there's not much there to build on. If you don't trust him for one reason or another, then this is something you two need to work on together. Communication is the key. Talk to him about how you feel. Get him to open up about what he is doing with all his time.
Mostly, you need to make sure you are giving him plenty of time away from you. If you are both in school or at work during the week, don't expect him to spend all weekend with you. One night with you and one night with his friends is a happy compromise. Then on the nights (or days) that he is out with his friends, you need to find a way to spend your own time with yours. Do something that occupies your mind, so the time will pass quickly. Catch up on some sleep, read a book, spend the day pampering yourself, go out with the girls, catch up on your household chores, etc... Just make sure that you aren't sitting at home bored waiting on him. You should have a life of your own too.
2006-08-25 17:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him or don't. I really don't understand people who are obsessed with 'catching' their cheating g/f b/fs. So what, you stopped him once....big deal what about next time? They're either not cheating and you threw away your trust for nothing, or they are and nothing would have make it work. You have to decide, do you trust him or not?
2006-08-29 05:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him where he is going and show up there to see what he is doing. if he says he is going to his friends house see if his cars there. if he is going to a bar ask him what bars hes at and watch him from across the room.
2006-08-25 23:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about it! i know it might be awkward but it'll be worth it. and if he hesitates when he answers make something up like "well i know your lying cuz i saw you with her" and if he's lying he'll fess up! but if he's telling the truth that he's not then he'll like flip! haha! or you could just go on that show "Cheaters"!!
2006-08-25 23:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by dance*dance*dance* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a little faith. i let my man go out with his boys because i trust him....and i will until he gives me a reason not to.
a relationship cant work without trust
2006-08-25 23:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he goes out...do not say anything.
You go out too...do not say anything!
2006-08-25 23:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks when he is gone and don't leave him a key
2006-08-25 23:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with him????!!! or leave him first
2006-08-29 20:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by babysweetvee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋