It's likely that I'm pregnant, although I need to get a blood test taken to make sure. But here's the dilemma...I've been seeing this guy for a year now, never cheated on him or anything because I'm always faithful to the one I'm with. During our relationship, we had an argument and decided to take a break for a month. I thought it was over when I didn't hear from him after a month. So one night I was out partying with one of my guy friends and ended up sleeping with him, and to my shock he came in me...unfortunately we didn't use protection. Then it happened again a week later, but we used protection. The guy that I was previously with came back in the picture and we ended up sleeping together a week later. I REALIZE I MADE BAD DECISIONS! But I wrote everything down on a calendar: I had a light period April 13, had sex w/friend the April15(came inside) April 19 had sex again w/him, April 24 had sex with the previous guy(no protection) Had a light period (could be implantation) May 5.
2006-08-25 16:16:52 · 9 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I understand that implantation can happen 12-14 days after possible fertilization. Which like I said would've been May 5, it was very light bleeding. Ever since then I've had brown spotting every month for a day. I'm just curious to know who could possibly be the dad?
2006-08-25 16:19:19 · update #1
The thing is I'm not sure if I'm pregnant because the HPT's came out negative, but I need to get a blood test, because I'm sticking out, having back pains, trouble breathing sometimes, feeling movements, etc. In the early months I didn't think I was because of the HPT tests, now I'm starting to get scared.
2006-08-25 16:23:39 · update #2
You'll have to see your dr about that. Then maybe you can pinpoint it more.
And unfort, maybe you will have to get a dna test done to make sure if the dates don' t work...
God Bless
2006-08-25 16:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by riverstarr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... here goes
LMP: April 13, 2006
Conception: April 27, 2006 (Concieved by your previous boyfriend, on April 24, 2006) [Sperm can live 3-5 days in the female body]
Due Date: January 18, 2007
You are 19 weeks and 1 day along
And ... You may be having a girl!
I hope this helps!
2006-08-25 17:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Regina R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my money's on the ex, sounds like the unprotected sex with the friend was a little too early in your cycle, but everyone has a diff cycle are you regular? anyway there really is no way to tell for sure without DNA
2006-08-25 16:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by watson4_27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have to wait till the baby is born before you can determine for sure. But, my money is on the first guy.
2006-08-28 11:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have your dates in order and you are familiar with the female cycle so your options are to guess or have a paternity test performed.
My guess... previous guy
2006-08-25 16:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way i would solve this is by seeing a doc, and if i were to be pregnant, i'd request the earliest sonogram to judge the due/conseption dates. best of luck!!!
2006-08-25 16:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, either one could be.........If I were you I would come clean to your boyfriend and the other guy and save yourself a WHOLE lot of grief........If your boyfriend truly loves you, he'll get over it, you were separated from him by mutual agreement........Please understand that it is not for me to judge you, as in I am not perfect either.........Take care, honey.............
2006-08-25 16:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the "other guy" tested once the baby is born. If its neg..then .......and if its positive......
2006-08-25 16:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW girly was too much nasty information.... see a doc.
2006-08-25 16:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋