i know am bi..but i have a strong feelings with guy..and love beautiful girls also..but i dont want everyone to know that i go out to find guys..specially my friends..so how can i be happy for this kind of situation?
2006-08-25 16:06:44 · 18 answers · asked by Student 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I feel your pain but because I'm in the same boat I have no answer for you but I wish you the best.
Umm to anyone who says it is easy to live on one side of the road has no idea how this is.
2006-08-25 16:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For right now, I think you have done the right thing: You have self-identified as bisexual but have kept it to yourself. This may not be the time to suddenly come out on stage and out yourself to your friends. In fact, I would be careful who I told that information to. Especially with your male friends, that might very well be a good way to lose friends. Coming out as a bisexual male is not the same as coming out as a homosexual. There are other risks involved and you may not be able to handle those at this time or maybe at any time. Take this one day at a time. It might be better to talk this over with a counselor than even a best friend right now. (It's important that you talk to someone you can trust but still keep your friends.) Male bisexuality is a difficult thing to accept about yourself, so I commend you for getting this far alone.
2006-08-25 23:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already decided that you can't be happy that way. Maybe you really don't know you are bi & trying to fool yourself in pleasure, however you think you can. If you don't want "everyone to know" then you have already decided it is not right. You don't need opinions here to make you feel better. Just decide to do the right thing.
2006-08-25 23:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Counselor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
searching..,
Acceptance. That's what you want. It's a terrible world with it's own brand of righteousness. You get left out because they wont accept what you want. So it's up to you to either make your own way, or accept theirs.
If you turn your eyes away from yourself, and away from others, you will find that there are greater things than yourself happening and existing.
What I do is turn my eyes to God. Oh, I still have my ways rolling around in my heart and mind, but that time I spend with my God through my Christ, no one can take that from me.
So it's a paradox. I lose myself, put myself on the back burner, and I gain a life that few understand.
That's where I hope that you can go.
2006-08-25 23:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its simple dude...just be the way you are and be happy about it, its not a wrong or a bad thing to have feelings for guys or mixed feelings of these two gender as this is normal, you can be secretive and can play your role carefully if you are not comfortable enough to let info abt yerself out...are you like 100% certain and sure that you are bi? or maybe it's just a mix feelings for both gender and confused for these feelings...anyway, you do what you feel like doing and it's best for you....
2006-08-25 23:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by funkyscorpion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find a guy and girl that are both Bi,move in together and have a threesome relationship with both of them.If you can choose one sex you want to be with you can also flip-flop back and forth and never have a commited relationship.Good luck as you get older.
2006-08-25 23:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude dont worry about it! If u wanna be with both teams thast grat! i have also "experimented" myself then fond it wasnt the thing for me. if you feel that what u are doing is right then there shouldnt be any problems with worrying about what others think. Just be u and if ur frends have a problem with u being Bi then that ant true frends of yours!
2006-08-25 23:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by loveforpackers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r friends 4 they will understand or find friends like u who r bi
2006-08-25 23:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be happy is to be true to you. Keeping a part of you secret can only hurt you in the long run.
2006-08-25 23:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by midas372001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the way to be happy when you are bi is to be always willing to "tri" new things
2006-08-25 23:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Screech Belding 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋