How Do I Get More Aggresive?

Question

Alright I am a very passive person. It is just a habit. What can I do to get more aggresive?

Answer 1

That's a fun personality. I am the same way. The only way I know how to be aggressive is to be a total d*ck to everyone, and some days I am, some days I don't feel like being passive. But, I have to say "alright I'm going to be a jerk today." I don't do it very often because I'm generally nice. But it is a bad trait, when someone trys to get the best of me I dont get aggressive, the only thing I know how to do is blow up like an f-ing lunatic. That get my point across but makes lots of people really mad at me, and gets me lots of wierd looks from bystanders. Not to mention I lose my cool, sometimes right in front of my wife, and that embarrasses her. Thats why its fun, people are used to me as passive than when I fly off the wagon people are astounded, you should see their faces. I honestly think, and science might call me a crazy, but being passive isn't a habit its a genetic trait that you can control. You should wake up in the morning and like a dieter with a fat family history decide your going to be aggressive today. People are used to you as passive, so when your aggressive they dont take you seriouslly. Be aggressive all the time, it wont fly at first, but after a while you'll be known as the most aggressive, abnoctuse, ****** around. dont hurt em'

Answer 2

Well say u played a sport,and agressive 1 like football or basketball. How wud u play? Not kindly,agressivly.U wud have amotovation.Find something that motovates u in life.Life ur family (thinking if they were hurt or upset) or something like that.Good Luck!

Answer 3

Its all in your mind
yoU've got to lose all fear
you've got to gain confidence and put a chip on your shoulder

think of everything that makes you mad and blame your opponent
basically you have got to become a selfish bully deep down inside

Answer 4

Haha...go sit in 2 hours of 5 oclock friday traffic with a bunch of idiot drivers. :)