..talking about gay pride. its driving me crazyy. I'm 13 and shes 14 i mean theres lots more stuff 2 talk about then gay pride. like everytime we talk shes like "u support me right?" then she always talks about gay pride flags and gay people. its really annoying what should i do?
2006-08-25 16:02:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She may just want a friend to talk to about it. Coming out as a bisexual or lesbian or gay can be very hard for people because it means you are different from others and now different issues are there you have to deal with. It is just on her mind a lot right now and you're her friend so she talks to you about it. It would prob'ly be a good idea for her to find a local GLBTQ youth group so she could go there and talk openly about it to others dealing with the same thing. I'll link a site where you can find one. Tell her about it then she can talk about gay pride there and something else with you.
2006-08-26 10:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 coming to terms with your sexuality is tough. Chances are if you are stuck on some guy all you talk about is him. But if it is not your issue I can understand you getting tired of hearing about it.
perhaps you can explain that while you do support her lifestyle you do like to talk about other things that you have in common. That those are things are what youor friendship is based on, not the gay pride. Remind her that you are not juding her and don't mind hearing her out occasionally but that you need to discuss other things as well.
2006-08-26 00:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is a little unsure of her self and not comfortable in her skin. If you have to always ask if you are being supported and that is your onlyconversation then I would consider you insecure. Perhaps you can tell her how much you like being her friend and how you support her in her sexuality but you want to talk about other stuff and if she cannot talk about other stuff you can't/won't talk with her.
Good luck
2006-08-25 16:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by cbellsew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bring up another something or try to find something that she likes besides gay pride and talk about that.
2006-08-25 16:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her once and for all that if she is gay or bisexual, she's still you friend and you support her, but since you are not gay or bisexual, you'd rather not talk about it so much. If she won't respect your wishes, then maybe you should spend less time with her.
2006-08-25 16:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ohh god. Shes just looking for some attention. Dare her to make out with some chick. Should take her off your back. Or show her some gay porn.
2006-08-25 16:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tigris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ixgiraffes,
I think that she just needs a little guidance. Do you have an older sister or a cool adult that can be around for when she visits? That way when she starts in with her apparent indoctrination of you, you'll get a good idea of how to deal with her.
2006-08-25 16:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her know that you are her friend and that you support her, but you want to talk about other subjects sometimes.
2006-08-25 16:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say be honest with her and tell her that it is annoying. Try and do it in a good way though. Maybe she wants you to try her lifestyle on for size. All I can say it don't get caught up! It is not all that they want you to believe.
2006-08-25 16:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Apostolic Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to pick a new subject and shut up. u know shes bi and she knows u know.
2006-08-25 16:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by god_of_the_accursed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋