hey i like a guy but he is so cute but i don`t think he likes me. he flirts with me but i don`t no if he feels sorry for me because i have a broken arm! do i tell him how i feel? or stay secretive? please help me!i`m desperte!!!!
2006-08-25 15:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Like I say 2 every1 with this problem,become his friend!Get 2 know him inside and out,and by the time ur arm is better,u will know wether u really like him or not.If u do,and he spends time hanging out with u and talking 2 u and flirting with u,ask him 2 hang out,but make it more personal,and maake it sound like a date 2 give it away.Dont do everything I say,make it from The heart.Good Luck!
2006-08-25 15:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - you have nothing to lose by casually asking him if he wants to come over or hang out sometime. You don't have to reveal the way you feel about him or how much you like him. Guys this age are way behind as far as maturity levels go so just know that- some of them still think "girls are icky" and haven't become interested yet while the girls have just started noticing them. They will catch up sooner or later though and start asking you.
It is totally fine and cool for a girl to ask out a guy - hey do you want to come over sometime or catch a movie. Talk to him about a movie that you know is out now and see if he is interested in the same one and if so say - hey do you want to see it with me sometime? Or, ask him and a few of his friends to go out to eat with you and a few of yours - like that friend you have who has not been asked out yet. This would make it less awkward, give her a chance to meet someone or go out with a guy she likes and you two would be more comfortable having each other there - like a double date. That could be fun. Maybe an adventure park or something. I say go ahead - I doubt he is just feeling sorry for your arm - if you think he is flirting, he probably is and if, by chance, he says no - it's ok. Boys can be shy and act like they don't like a girl that they really do - sometimes they will tease or make fun of the girl they like cause they don't know how to say it or express it yet - so go for it. Do it casual and maybe the - hey do you and Mike want to hang out with me and Stacey sometime? That way it is both of you and if he says no, he will never know which one of you really wanted to do this - nothing to lose. :o)
2006-08-26 03:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like probably many of these people have said, whats the worst he could say? No? If he does, he's probably a retard. Anyway, yeah, guys are hard to read, but so are girls! So keep that in mind.
2006-08-25 22:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into the mushy stuff, just ask the guy out.
2006-08-25 22:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the cast comes off and see how he is then.
2006-08-25 22:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make friends with his friends, and ask them to help you. This way, it'll be a tad easier?
2006-08-25 22:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think so read some tips on this site on how to go for it
2006-08-25 22:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey i think u should go for it but before that try to get sum of ur friends to talk to sum of his friends to see if he is feeling u cuz it would suck to get embrassed rite?
2006-08-25 22:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be desperate, wait until he decides to come your way, or you ll adding more pains to your arms.
2006-08-25 22:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel ma... im pretty sure he feel da same way im goin thru da same thing with dis boi
2006-08-25 22:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Mz.Top Notch♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋