I ran like puss in water when she was pissed and I stayed away for three days. There is no way that I could make up for it and I don't know what will happen. The light in out relationship is totally gone and our definition is to look at each other with credulousness. How does he feel about me? Hw does she feel about me?
It was me who ran, it was me who coward, it was me who made a fool out of myself and stole from her trust in anyone.
She loved me and I didn't know it. She trusted me and I didn't know the value of it. If only I could do it again I would.
I would stand up and say "I messed up on you birthday, but I will give you a birthday when it is not your birhtday".
2006-08-25 15:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you sound like my x. he bailed out on me on my birthday too, not to mention his x came around the day before my bday saying he gave her some bday loving that day as it was her bday. i was pissed. quite frankly you messed up. whatever the problem was you shouldn't have ran. if she is like me you have to stick it out and handle the argument. you can't make up for the bday. no matter how hard you try. (mine tried with dinner, a movie and a $250 bracelet didn't work). so yeah you just have to stick it out with your tail between your legs for awhile. she'll come around. but you need to give her time and space, but be there....whatever she wants do, watch what she wants on tv, or whatever movie etc.
2006-08-25 15:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't exactly say you were scum, you already know that what you did was wrong. The fact is that we all make mistakes, some are just bigger than others.
As you know your girlfriend has ever right to question your relationship now. You ran, and when will the next time be? If you truly know in your heart that you messed up then you need to express that to her. Exactly what you have asked on Y. Answers is what you should be telling her. You can start by telling her that you made a big mistake that you truly regret it.
It's going to take time now to repair what you have done, but if you are serious about her, it can be done.
Forget the birthday, a simple heartfelt "I'm so sorry for what I have done, Forgive me" would be a much better gift.
2006-08-25 22:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tweek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a scum. Leave her alone and let her get on with her life. If you continue to act like that. You will be alone for a long, long time. Take a walk and move on and let her do the same. Shame on you.
2006-08-25 22:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being overly dramatic. Just buy her a nice gift and card and tell her you're sorry. Write down important dates so you don't forget them in the future.
2006-08-25 22:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do it. What have you got to lose? It seems you already lost her, so there's not hurt in trying. If nothing else, at least you'll be at peace for what you did.
2006-08-25 22:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by haleyh13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep smoking crack im sure your the only one who understands the question!!
2006-08-25 22:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her how you feel.
2006-08-25 22:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur a dumb *** i would have done the same thing that she did
2006-08-25 22:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Katie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋