I'm shy and not really sociable, meaning I don't care too much for wild parties and stuff like that. I do sometimes go and hang out with my friends and call them and stuff, but my mom thinks there's something wrong with me just because out of my whole family, I'm the only shy one in it basically and I'm not all loud and stuff. It's so annoying and it hurts my feelings when shes talking to her friends and she's talking about me and she says 'I'm thinking of taking her to a psychiatric hospital because I think she has mental problems' That's hurts soo much. It makes me cry because I don't think there's nothing wrong with me at all. And because I am the way I am, she thinks I'm gonna commit suicide or something like my aunt did.
2006-08-25 14:54:58 · 14 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There's nothing wrong with you. Everyone is unique and have their own personality. You are most likely Type B personality. That means you feel more comfortable when you aren't around a crowd. Your mom is like that because she thinks everyone is supposed to be like her. Just tell her you have a different personality from her. Hopefully she understands. It's good to not care about wild parties because sometimes they go too crazy. If she makes you feel bad about yourself, don't listen to her. Be yourself because you are different. It's good to be different sometimes.
2006-08-25 19:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, calm down! If you're shy, it's your business, not really your family's. Tell your mother that you're like that and she has to respect. And you're not crazy... Just shy! That's what the doc will say... And you may be very sociable in the future, you never know tomorrow...
2006-08-25 18:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Luis Andrade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm shy too and quiet and all that. there's nothing wrong w/ you like your mom thinks. if she wants to take you to a psych hosp. tell her to just do it and stop talking about it to her friends like that. i doubt she really would bc if she wanted to she'd prob done it by now. just ignore what she says, i know that's prob hard to do, but you know there's nothing wrong w/ you. i wish i could be more outgoing and extoverted and there's times in my life i wish i could go back and redo as a more extroverted person. if you like the way you are, then don't worry about it. i won't tell you to just get over it and be more outgoing bc i know that's very hard to do. if you are able to break out of your shell, then i think that's fantastic, but i know that's not an easy or quick thing to do. good luck
2006-08-25 15:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ebryone is unique on its own.u are one indiviual.if u think you are fine with no * mental problem *u should talk to your mom instead of crying,if u cry more they will think you have some kinda depression or something like that.moreover cry don solve problem. Gal, you lead your own life.just like u are driving a car, u control the steering wheel. there;s only a driver in evry car. yes?
2006-08-25 15:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you and your mother is the crazy one
for not understanding this. When she says this again, make it
clear that you are just different and she needs to accept it and to
get a life instead of whining about how different you are!
2006-08-25 15:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is psychotic.
Well, maybe not psychotic. But she should be the one going to a shrink. Making her own daughter want to kill herself?
Lots of people are shy, don't be ashamed! You should be glad you're not loud, obnoxious, and attention seeking like others.
You are COMPLETELY NORMAL. There is NOTHING wrong with you! So do NOT kill yourself! :)
Good luck!
2006-08-26 02:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcasm Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal. Have a serious talk with your mom and tell her it makes you sad when she talks about you that way. I think you are probably a mature, serious person who doesn't need parties, drinking, etc. to have fun. Good for you. Don't let anybody try to change you.
2006-08-25 15:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you. some people are just shy. but you should try and losen up a little. maybe check out some parties. if your mom thinks there IS something wrong with you than thats her problem, if you KNOW there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-08-25 15:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Emilie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I m 21 and i dun go club nor parties and stuffs.. what's wrong with that? Play some sports or go shopping. tt's enough!
I dun like socialising and doesn't talk much most of the time.
What's wrong with that? come on..
Dun care abt wad ur mum says..
Just be urself k?
2006-08-25 16:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Zy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is the one who needs the shrink. She should be happy to be blessed with you.
Tell her how much it hurts.
2006-08-25 15:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋