What would you do if your hubby no longer wanted sex?
Please, serious only...
2006-08-25 14:40:10 · 15 answers · asked by n9wff 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would find out why.
2006-08-25 14:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i know i would ask him what the probelm is. it is something that i am doing or not doing, if it is something that u r not doing, find out what he wants, then fix the prob. if he cant give u an answer, well, it could b that he is getting it somewhere else, i cant imagine any man that does not want sex. there has 2 b a good reason. like i say in so many of these ans. u have got 2 communicate, if u dont ask he wont tell, if u ask & he wont tell, then just keep trying. dont give up til u get the real reason. then & only then can u make a good decision about the relationship.
2006-08-25 23:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by ladydi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I continued to be a good wife, got it when I absolutely needed it, and didn't push the issue...at first I did, but it didn't do any good so I gave up. Honestly, I think right before he stopped with the sex, he started having an affair...although I'll never know for sure. Anyway, it finally took me having an affair for his sex drive and jealousy over me to come back at least towards me anyway.
2006-08-25 21:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my loved one no longer wanted sex I would beg him to see a doctor in case there was a reason for it. He could have a major health problem, or he could just have low hormone levels. I would ask him to follow through with treatment if possible.
If he could never have sex again, I would let him know he is still the love of my life, and we could work through the issue and save our marriage.
2006-08-25 21:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do go throught part of their lives not needing or wanting sex. my husband hasn't approached me for several monthes now, at first I was horrified because I thought it was me. But after a lot of talking and understanding I know that he is at a different part of his life and sex isn't as important. We don't stress it, I'm completely faithful and I can make myself happy if I want. I love my huspand dearly and can't be happier.
2006-08-25 21:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by aly_girl501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would at first wonder what the hell was going on, if there was a good reason I would be okay with it. We have always been best friends. It would not affect the way I felt about him, I am more of a cudler anyway
2006-08-25 22:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy..that is not good..if my husband didnt want sex i think i would think he is getting it from somewhere( lol even tho my husband is prolly the best husband in the world and wouldnt do such thing) being a jealous type i would prolly assume sth .. :( making me sad just thinking that he wouldnt want to have sex with me
2006-08-25 21:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there would have to be a reason right? if he doesnt give me a good one then i would probably use my rabbit to get me off but after a while i would need some affection if he isnt ready to deliver then i would get it somewhere else
2006-08-25 21:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and try to understand what was going on. I would also try to seduce him. If none of that worked..... oh boy I guess I would die a masturbating queen because I would never cheat on my man.
2006-08-25 21:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counseling.
2006-08-25 21:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle118 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you need open lines of communication within your marriage. If that doesn't work I would recommend counseling.
2006-08-25 22:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by mrsstephaniekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋