If you walked in on your bf/gf naked on a couch laying with another girl/boy after a night of drinking and he/she told you he/she did nothing with the other person, their clothes were just wet from puke so they took them off, what would you think/say?
2006-08-25 14:18:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would think that they are lying to you and think it's time to be single for a while.
2006-08-25 14:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now, this is a tough one.
it seems as tho most people who have answered this question would not believe it at all.... however....
innocent until proven guilty. What if it was true and they really didnt do anything. I mean, think about it, when your heaps drunk its so easy to wind up in situations where you get close to a person of the opposite sex (i know i know, intoxication is no excuse for this kind of behaviour from your bf/gf), but it depends on how much you trust the person i guess.
I have fallen asleep in the same bed as a male friend and my ex bf walked in and woke us up the next morning, (but we had clothes on) nothing happened and i told him that and I was telling the truth and he didn't believe me and never trusted me again but he didnt end the relationship for ages after that.
If it happened to me -
If i really loved the guy, and i had no reason to think he had lied to me in the past b4, then I would give him the benefit of the doubt and believe what he was saying. At the same time, I would also make it very clear how stupid he was for getting himself into a situation where I could be made to look like a fool and tell him I fully believe you but I dont think your the type of person I wanna be with if your gonna go around waking up next to other girls after being drunk!
If i still had feelings for him, I would give him another chance, if I wanted an excuse to get outta the relationship, I would say its over!
At the end of the day, I guess im just not the jealous type.
2006-08-25 14:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe a word of it...not one bit. If they puked and their clothes were all wet, then they could have taken them off in seperate rooms. PLUS, why do they need to lay together after removing their clothing? Is this something you're going through? If so, you have every right to believe what you want to believe, but I sure hope you don't fall for that one.
2006-08-25 14:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would ask if there was no other place one of them could have slept. Secondly - was there NO other form of covering they could have used? (ie. sheets, big towels, t-shirts, etc.) Then I would have asked why were they were together getting drunk in the first place. And then? Depending on whose apartment it was. Tell them to leave immediately and NO their clothes are still far too wet to wear and you can't think of a thing they might cover themselves with. If it was his apartment I would have laughed so hard at them, tell them they look absolutely ridiculous but oh so right for each other and then walk out and never ever return.
I know these things will not stop you from hurting but at least you will have something to smile about when it hurts too bad. Honey this girl/boy is a drunken liar so be glad you learned now.
I wish you many many blessings in your life. I also wish for you to find someone honest who will love you as much as you love her/him.
2006-08-25 14:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by fishergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I'd want to believe that, my dear and "I" have before been that naive' I sit &think of how insulted I was when I realised what a fool I was made out to looklike.The anger of it to be hurt&lied to from someone that SAID THEY LOVED ME >>>if thats love, its not the kind i want for me or anyone I'd wish that on.sorry it may be painful but move-on.once ur on the outside and see how they treat someone else you'll understand alot better-what im sayin-SAVE YourSELF if you have the guts
2006-08-25 14:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psshtt...yeah rite. That doesn't give u an excuse to lying completly naked. Changes clothes at least...no excuse *tsk, tsk*
2006-08-25 14:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to call you next time so you all can have a threesome. When they smile, look at each other and say "really, we thought you'd be mad"?
Then say...I AM....DO I LOOK STUPID OR SOMETHING? GET THE F OUT OF MY SIGHT. Then smile and walk off never to return.
2006-08-25 14:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether they were drunk or not they should have stayed clothed or at the very least put something on.
Sounds bad to me.
2006-08-25 14:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That it was the lamest excuse I ever heard. Were there were no other clothes in the house?!
2006-08-25 14:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ro-bot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them, its not as bad that they just cheated on u, but they just lied to ur face. they did it to themselves
and u should look at the clothes there should still be stains.
2006-08-25 14:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "Good bye, find another way home." Not only that, why were they puking? If it was because they were drunk I would again say "Good bye!"
2006-08-25 14:22:01 · answer #11 · answered by harrison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋