My boyfriend is starting his new job where my aunt works. I heard many girls were checking him out. I heard that the person who interviewed him really liked him and she made the boss hire him. Should i feel insecure?
2006-08-25 14:13:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you know your guy is devoted to you then you should not feel insecure, but flattered that other women find him attractive..
From who have you been hearing that all these girls are checking him out? Your boyfriend? His aunt? Be careful about the source in which you recieve this information, someone could be trying to make you feel insecure about your relationship.
Sometimes guys boast about other women liking them in hopes of keeping you on your toes. Or others just like drama because they don't have anyone to be happy with.
As long as your boyfriend continues to show you respect and attention, then you have nothing to be concerned about.
2006-08-25 14:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he is in a candy store of "female delights"! Perhaps if he knows your aunt is watching him, he will keep himself in check! Many guys get a big head when they know a lot of girls are checking them out! You know him better than me. If he starts acting weird after a while, you will know something is up. On the other hand, don't start getting possessive and suspicious with him, just maintain being calm, unless you have a concrete reason to become worried. Don't go by rumors either, a lot of women like to exaggerate when they "think" a guy has the "Hots" for them.
2006-08-25 21:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no reason to be insecure unless your bf gives you reason otherwise.
It is theh price you pay for having a hot boyfriend.,
If he is a good guy he will NOT make a deal out of this. The girls will find someone else to show their attention to.
And if he does leave you for a girl there.......then what sort of creep is he?? Best to learn that about him sooner or later. If he is a good boyfriend then he will not be tempted by other women's attention.
Hon, you guys live in a world of good looking girls and guys...we just have to deal with it
2006-08-25 21:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is time to feel insecure because he'll probably fool around at work. I mean, what would a man do if he has so many girls at his disposal?
2006-08-25 21:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - you are woman - you are insecure by nature
But he's also gonna get him some "you-know-what"
2006-08-25 21:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes yours let them eat their hearts out.
2006-08-25 21:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's with you. Other people are gonna do their thing; it's his reponse to them that should answer your question.
2006-08-26 00:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by viking_princess2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you're the one he's with not those other girls
2006-08-25 21:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by anthony w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋