I consider myself bisexual, but I lean more towards women than men. So much so that I am married to a wonderful woman who is the light of my life. she knows of my feelings, but also knows that I am committed to her.
But today we went to a farmers market in town and we stopped by a vegetable stand.
Do you know those stupid slap-stick movies where the guy sees a gorgeous girl, and he can't stop looking at her, and he walks into a light pole or mailbox or something? I did exactly that, except it was a guy a saw and I walked into the pole that held up their tent cover. He was tall, handsome and had the most captivating eyes. He also had a sweet, kind baby face, and i just could not look away. He was well built and clean shaven and I almost gave myself a concussion walking into the pole. It hurt...physically and emotionally. He was freaking gorgeous. He spoke softly and enunciated in an almost British accent. He had the kindest look about him. I was floored.
Anyone suffer like this?
2006-08-25 14:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well I think it happens to a lot of people who are in a long, committed relationship. Just because your spouse is wonderful, it doesn't mean there aren't any other wonderful people who you would fall for. It's just that you choose to stay with your spouse and get over the "floored"feeling. I don't think the fact that it's a guy has anything to do with it. It could also have happened if he had been a woman.
2006-08-25 14:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Michael S,
I've been pretty bad aboout looking at women mostly. I kind of stand out and I hate it.
I'm not married. But if you value your relationship with your wife, whether she says she understands or not, tell yourself NO!
We all have to do that sometimes. Whether it's a sexual thing or not. It's called self control. IIn your case it's also called respecting your wife. Treating her the way she deserves.
I hope I just didn't offend half the board.
2006-08-25 22:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been so captivated. I have been at a loss for words where either silence echoes from my gapped mouth or gibberish spills forth.
2006-08-26 01:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings like this for anyone of either sex and you are married or in a committed relationship, then you shouldn't be. If your wife was fulfilling your desires and needs, then you wouldn't be looking elsewhere.
2006-08-25 21:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We need more details. You don't mention any sensations in your nether regions. You just made up tis story, didn't you?
2006-08-25 22:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm...never in such an embarasing way, but yeah, I've been there.
2006-08-26 00:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you a male or a female?
2006-08-25 21:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by TROLLIN' 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suffer like this with women, its understandable
2006-08-25 21:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by hanumistee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep
2006-08-25 21:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋