so today i had sex and the way he was banging me made me hurt really bad idk if he was goin to far in or too fast all i know is that i felt like i was ripping..does anyone know whats up..
2006-08-25 13:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by angel1566789 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Change to a different position next time - try being on top - this way you can control the speed, depth and frequency of the thrusts.
2006-08-25 13:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be more gentle while banging. Banging isn't supposed to hurt. Sex isn't supposed to hurt. It's supposed to be pleasing and enjoyable. Tell him to bang more gracefully.
If you felt like you were tearing you might need to confront your best friend or parents, and the doctor!
2006-08-25 20:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly the position you were in was not a good one. Try taking control of the situation (different positions) next time and work it to your pleasure.
2006-08-25 20:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some lubrication sounds like, or if you do not enjoy the way you both 'bang', you need a new guy.
2006-08-25 20:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain during sex could mean that there wasn't enough lubrication or the angle could have been wrong. If the pain continues then you should see your gyn.
2006-08-25 20:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down and be gentle! You don't want to get loose or calloused there, do you? Tell him not to treat your body like a pinball machine.
2006-08-25 20:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try another position, missionary is usually a little less invasive.
2006-08-25 20:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by hawt2trawt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down! tell him to be gentler. If you're not ready, then don't do it.don't let him be the boss of you, girl! Tell him!
2006-08-25 20:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by Iamsocool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably was ripping u. f it hurts tell him . y wld u let that continue?
2006-08-25 21:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋