Well, it's mostly my mom. I don't even know why she all the sudden starting to act like this. I'm 15 and not the ugliest girl in the world. Ok like whenever we go somewhere, she and I'm not at her for like THE WHOLE TIME we're there [if I walk off or something], she throws a fit and starts calling out my name and stuff and I'll be doing something normal like hanging out with my friends. And recently, I was just talking with my best friends bf about school and stuff and we were alone waiting for my friend to come out of the bathroom. We were sort of standing by a door but not completely in a corner. I wasn't flirting with him or anything like that. My dad walks out, notices us, smiles, asks me a question and then walks on. Later on he told my mom that he had me 'cornered' and when she asked me what we were talking about, I said school. Which was the absolute truth. And yet she still gave me this face like "I don't belive you." And yet she says she trusts me. I just hate it.
2006-08-25 13:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i tottaly get what your saying! im 12, and everytime i ask my mom to go somewhere shes liek, "where are you going" giving me this look, "who are you going with?" "what are you going to do" and sometimes, when i want to go to the park with my one best chick friend, lol and 2 best guy friends, she won't let me! ill say,
can i go to the park with daniel, josh and tara?
*sigh" kimberly, what do you do there anyways?!
nothing!! god, you always think im up to somthing mom! i
jsut hang out wiht my friends!
no, im not letting you go, you can go some other time
you already went to the park this week.
and im liek, wtf?? i can go more then once. eerrrg i tottaly get where your coming from. its sooooo annyoing!
2006-08-25 16:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're a teen and she is a mother. She is only doing her job as a parent to be over-protective. We all go through this stuff and as long as you know that you're telling the truth; that is all that should matter.
I say, let them think what they want. And your mom should think about it... if the boy supposedly had you cornered like your dad said to your mom, then why didn't your dad go over there and break it up or something? Ask your mom that one!
2006-08-25 13:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem. All people go through this stage in their life where they no longer view their parents as being their heroes but rather see them as being a pain.
It's part of growing up. It's why eventually you will move out and get a life of your own separate from your parents. It would be much worse if your parents just ignored you. That would mean they just didn't care about you. Unfortunately it's their job to worry and be a pain in the butt. It will pass, try not to worry about it too much.
2006-08-25 13:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl goes through this with their moms and it will stop. Probably in about 3 or 4 years. Just let her know that you are trust worthy and that it hurts you when she treats you like this.
2006-08-25 13:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by GrammarPolice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just being a mom..She is probably scared something will happen to you and at age 15 she has every right to be scared...Reassure her that you are not doing anything wrong just wanting to have fun
2006-08-25 14:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby u r not the only one, my parents r obsessed they think that I'm with all they guys that call me or something, my father scares my friends like hell, and when they go to my house he gives them than face like "u touch her i kill u". They even tough that my gay friend was my boyfriend.
2006-08-25 13:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some of the things you are doing is reminding her of herself. She doesn't want you to get in trouble.
2006-08-25 15:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah my mom freaks out about me hanging out with boy's, i just tell her that i have'nt done anything really bad in all my years living with my parents she just give's up and walks away. she tells me that it's not that dosn't she trust me that she dosn't trust them. it's really annoying
2006-08-25 14:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means your mom cares about you a lot.
2006-08-25 13:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her but need a little space and you will always come to her if u have a problem you cant handle by yourself.
2006-08-25 13:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋