i would like to know because it can help me
2006-08-25 12:42:10 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you should never change,just be yourself and if people cannot accept you as you are then find some other friends.Don`t become false as people don`t like false personality`s....Good luck.
2006-08-25 23:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by sarah y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are you, so stay you. There is a name for people who change to fit in with the group they are with. They are called 'shallow'
True Friends will like you for who you are. Trying to fit in is what leads people into 'peer pressure' criminal behavior. It seems hard, but in the end you will be a richer person for it. And alive, which is always a bonus.
2006-08-25 19:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Aurthor D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself, or you will spend the rest of your life being false. If your being told to calm down on something like drinking. Your friends have a point to make and you should listen. If you are trying to save you. But if you are changing to fit in your life will be a lie.
2006-08-26 04:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like the 'other people' so much try to change but trust me it's too hard, later in life u 'll feel lost and confused , and most of the 'other people' might not be who u think they 're
I've been there once
2006-08-26 03:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by memo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't change who you are just to fit in people should except you for who you are and what you are no body should care what you look like.I'm sure there are people out there exactly like you.don't give up hope and change cause somebody else wants you to.
2006-08-26 07:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way luv one thing iv learned over the years is dont try and change or act different if people dont like you how you r then screw them its ther loss
2006-08-25 19:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If people cannot accept the you that you are then they're not really your friends at all. BE yourself and if people like you for it great if not find some new "real" friends.
2006-08-25 19:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means. No offense but you don't sound like you have a very well defined sense of self or much of a 'backbone' so try to find a strong person to mold yourself after.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 19:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a leopard can't change its spots. no matter how hard you try, you wont be able to change yourself and still feel happy and comfortable. people should accept you for who you are.
2006-08-26 02:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..you should never change the person you are on the inside.. thats what makes you, You.
2006-08-25 19:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋