2006-08-25 12:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by traceyhinton1970 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First thing to realize is sex can be REALLY fun even if you don't have an orgasm. A huge population of women never experience an orgasm during intercourse, only oral. Experiment, a lot, with yourself and your partner. I'm not a big advocator of experimenting with vibrators to achieve your first orgasm, and here's why. Unless you want your partner to use a vibrator on you, you are not going to feel the sensation with a person that you do with a vibrator. I highly recommend getting to know yourself and what feels good to you without the use of toys at first, unless you just want to HAVE an orgasm, but it's a lot sweeter to experience for the first time with a person, OR with yourself. Also, and this is from personal experience, my ex had never experienced an orgasm and used a vibrator a lot (but never with me, only alone, don't ask)
NOTHING I did brought her to orgasm (except once in 5 years) because she had to have that intense VIIIIBRATION to achieve an orgasm. LAME, because when I asked her to lay off the fuuucking thing for a week to become a little more sensitive down there, she refused!!! She was addicted to the vibrator!!!!!
2006-08-25 12:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by libraesque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vibrators are fun and if you hold them in the right spot they can work wonders but there are men out there that can do it and are you sure that you haven't think back have you ever felt this tingling down there and then all of a sudden get really wet.
2006-08-25 12:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for me is with a partner. Be selfish. Get what you want. Take control. Most men like it and it is such a turn on.
2006-08-25 12:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too ummm tense with a man, uncomfortable even. Try by yourself then just try to relax. Maybe a Xanex or Valium before sex...
2006-08-25 12:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your neerest sex or adult novelty shop and buy a "bullett" ( its a vibrator ... cheap one)place this on high and right on top of your clitorous and 10 to 15 seconds you will!!!
2006-08-25 14:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Amy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried the various toys that are available? There are some awesome G-spot vibrators...
2006-08-25 12:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a place like "Good Vibrations", as they can help with you caliber of problem and offer suggestions and items to help you achieve your goal
2006-08-25 12:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use the shower head with warm water and let the water hit your clit after a while you will get it but you have to be relax and take your time.
2006-08-25 12:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl, you are missing out. You need to come more familiar with your body, find out what you like and make that known when you're with your man. good luck
2006-08-25 12:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd love to assist you in achieveing an orgasm.
email or IM me if you are interested
2006-08-25 12:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋