Ok,i JUST started middle school wensday.Guess what.MY PARENTS ARE THINKING OF MOVING!!!!!It is the best time of my life right now.I have great teachers,lots of friends.And this boy nathaniell i knew him since 1st day of 5th grade and we have been realy good friends.I mean REALY good friends.Bff's.Not perfect boyfriend/girlfriend.But he makes laugh and defends me.Like today in course.Thes guys were pluking at my violin(nathanielle plays the same insturment)and we sat next to each other.Well,people had to share violin with people and he was paired up with one person and i was alone cuz i had my own violin.And thes guys were like messing with me like acting weird and playing with my violin.And they wouldnt stop messing with me an nathanielle said ''stop.you guys are jerks.''So they started on nathanielle.And i was like''hey,Cut it out.''So they kept horassing nathanielle ands we got tired of it so we told them off.Not bad languidge.And my bff shelby known each other since like 2nd grade!!
2006-08-25 12:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And all of my other best friends.And i'm only 12 and all that dramatic is starting.In 6th grade.And nathanielle is just like basically my brother.I love him but like a brother or a pet fish.I'd cry if i had to flush him down the toilet but i dont wanna kiss him.And Me and my best friend shelby. are just like tight as a ruberband.Sometimes we snap but we fix it.Same with me and nathanielle and all of my other friends.We just are like very tight.I dont want to let that go.I cryed in the shower and couldnt stop.Please help me.And alls my parent wants to move for is a bigger house.They say we dont have room cux we have too much junk!!And thats all.I mean,I just dont get it.And northcarolina i'm not going to make any friends cuz its middle school!!!!! and my parents dont get that!!!!I just dont know what to do.:(PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 12:38:38 · update #1
When i said shorus i ment orchestra
2006-08-25 13:58:16 · update #2
Let a teacher try to answer this one. First, what about the rest of the family?
Second, even in middle school, making friends is not so difficult. I used to have a lot of friends from camp and we kept in touch. (In fact, I met my first girl friend at a camp and we wrote to each other for about 2 years. I wonder how she is doing now?)
Later in life you will probably move a lot and need to learn how to make new friends fast. You have a lot of talents so you will probably have a lot of fun in the band or chorus or track team.
BTW, If I could live anywhere in the states>>>I live in PUerto Rico on the beach although I am from St. Louis>>>I would live in N. Carolina since I studied at Duke and love the area. It has everything you could want to have fun.
2006-08-25 14:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to calm down its not the end of the world your parents I'm sure are not wanting to move to be mean to you they are doing it for a reason so look at it as a bright side you will have more room you will meet new friends and your old Friends you can still keep in touch with if they are truly your friends you will find a way to stay in touch just don't make it harder on your parents I'm sure they are trying to be fair good luck hang in there its not the end of the world.
2006-08-25 21:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by satingold2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine. Dont worry its a small world you can easily communicate with your old friends and you will make new ones too. Yes you are being taken out of your comfort zone but that is a building experience that you can share and learn from.
2006-08-25 21:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there ain't no way that you can convince your parents not to move. Just like you have your agenda, they have theirs. You are just going to have to accept the fact that you are going to just have to start over in a new school. Now you have to get it together and make new friends. It sucks, but thems the facts of life.
2006-08-25 21:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me. but u have it better. see, at least you have started 6th grade, but i was informed over the summer! What i did is called up one of my more popular friends and asked her for a couple of my friend's phone#s and e-mails. U can still keep in touch with them it is not as bad as u think right now. i want you to know that i still feel for you though.
2006-08-25 21:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is suck.
But u still can keep in tough with each other is it,
u can go online chat with u're friend , phone them, or else when is school holiday u can go n visit them
Life is suck cause all the decision is made by our parent, we can't say NOOOOOOOO
2006-08-25 21:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can keep in touch w/ nathaniel. He probably will miss you too! Good luck with the new school!
2006-08-26 00:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them believe me when I say we can't help you unless we buy u a bigger house whereever u are.
2006-08-25 21:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sry to hear that but i think that u should convience ur parents to stay and make them so that they understand ur feelings and sit down wit them and talk it through but dont start gettin all cranky and stuff and dont yell at them try sweet talkin through the conversation and see wat they say
2006-08-25 21:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥D3Si ChiC♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convice your parents you like where you are living you have friends and you like your school and teachers .
2006-08-25 19:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋