my best friend dumped my other friend and my other friend doesn't want me to take sides so I don't know what to do. I need help.
2006-08-25 12:23:36 · 14 answers · asked by kara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to take a step back let them figure out what they need to do to clear things up between them. All your going to do is just get stuck in the middle.
2006-08-25 12:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair for them to ask you to take sides, especially if you have been friends with them both.
Don't do it. Just stay out of it. Ask both of them not to discuss the issue with you.
Neither of them should ask your advice on the situation and you shouldn't offer your opinion, either.
Hopefully, they will work it out on their own. In the mean time, you'll have to be careful not to offend either one of them. Try to spend equal time, so you don't upset one or the other, or...if you are feeling torn, take a break from both of them!
2006-08-25 12:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to either one about the relationship which will ease your stress level and you'll not be taking sides. It can be done to keep their friendships even though they don't want to stay friends.
2006-08-25 12:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to u is to jus remain neutral, don't take sides just listen to both. Maybe you can be the voice of reason to end their silly disagreement
2006-08-25 12:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let both of them know that just because you are friends with both of them doesn't mean that they have to be friends with each other.
2006-08-25 12:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try being friends with both of them. Explain to both of them that you like each of them and want to stay friends with them.
2006-08-25 12:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been where you are now but in the end it did not work out for me, hopefully it will for you. first i would see if i could mend the fences back together between them but if not then i would sit them both down (separately of course) and explain to them that you love them both and you want to be friends with them both. and they should not ask you nor demand you to break your friendship with either of them b/c it's not fair concerning you. if that doesn't work as them to put themselves in your shoes.
2006-08-25 13:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by angelia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should plan a meeting and invite both of them but don't let them know they're both gonna be there:(hehe. Then they could deal things out.
2006-08-25 12:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advice i give to you is just dont take anybodys side and just back off its their problem not yours still be friends wiht both listen to both of them dont go tell the other person wat they said keep it to your self.
2006-08-25 12:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋